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*lady parts thing.... Hee hee

Not having to go sideways through a turnstile

Wear shorts again

More energy

More self esteem

Cross my legs

Wear heels without looking like a top (the toy)

Less joint pain

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All i want to do is be able to sit with my legs crossed!

which seems like light years away!!

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Oh boy, you guys mentioned most of mine. I especially love the "lady part" one!

Being healthy.

I would like to buy clothes from L.L.Bean, etc. Any catalog.

Look forward to not jiggling.

Walking down the aisle of an airplane without my hips hitting people upside the head.

Sitting in a booth at a restaurant

Making my Doctors happy.

Achieving an actual goal.

Buying concert tee's from a catalog.

Believe it or not, shopping at Goodwill, finding deals on clothes that fit.

Standing straight with my feet touching each other w/out falling over.

Fitting comfortably through public restroom stall doors.

Riding a bicycle.

Walking my dog, who at 25 lbs, walks me!

Not propping up, lifting and shifting in the shower

Having my nippies pointing out not down.

Weighing less than someone else for once.

Sitting in those folding camping chairs.

Not trampling people at shows to get to my row seat.

Fitting in that seat w/out my hips invading someone else's space.

Weighing less than my husband.

Gaining control of my Life.

Last, and most important...making my Mom (RIP) proud.

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Oh boy' date=' you guys mentioned most of mine. I especially love the "lady part" one!

Being healthy.

I would like to buy clothes from L.L.Bean, etc. Any catalog.

Look forward to not jiggling.

Walking down the aisle of an airplane without my hips hitting people upside the head.

Sitting in a booth at a restaurant

Making my Doctors happy.

Achieving an actual goal.

Buying concert tee's from a catalog.

Believe it or not, shopping at Goodwill, finding deals on clothes that fit.

Standing straight with my feet touching each other w/out falling over.

Fitting comfortably through public restroom stall doors.

Riding a bicycle.

Walking my dog, who at 25 lbs, walks me!

Not propping up, lifting and shifting in the shower

Having my nippies pointing out not down.

Weighing less than someone else for once.

Sitting in those folding camping chairs.

Not trampling people at shows to get to my row seat.

Fitting in that seat w/out my hips invading someone else's space.

Weighing less than my husband.

Gaining control of my Life.

Last, and most important...making my Mom (RIP) proud.[/quote']

I lost my Mom last year. That's a big one for me too :')

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I lost my Mom last year. That's a big one for me too :')

I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother, my condolences.

Yeah, my Mom always told me I was fat when I was skinny. She was really hung up on me being fat. She passed last year while in Hospice of Breast Cancer. And before she slipped away, I promised her I would make her proud. And I think she's proud that I've come this far...

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Not having to wear spandex under a dress to smooth things out...and no more spanks so that my thighs don't chafe..I hope and this is a big goal for me..I will be 40 in 2.5 years and I wanna wear my daughters super cute size 7 prom dress at my big 4-0 bash!!! Lol

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I bet you have all made your passed loved ones so proud! Some of the things I am excited for are to be able to shop in regular stores at the mall (instead of resorting to the clearance rack from Walmart), looking smokin' on my 5th annerversary this April- ( I get banded in early October... I *think* he bought a ring!) too see my lady parts, paint my toenails, wear my hear certain ways that right now don't flatter my face, stop getting bumps on my inner thighs from them rubbing together, be active, have more energy, man... I could go on forever!

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I just want to be able to walk without excruciating pain, everything else would be icing on the cake.

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Oh boy, you guys mentioned most of mine. I especially love the "lady part" one!

Being healthy.

I would like to buy clothes from L.L.Bean, etc. Any catalog.

Look forward to not jiggling.

Walking down the aisle of an airplane without my hips hitting people upside the head.

Sitting in a booth at a restaurant

Making my Doctors happy.

Achieving an actual goal.

Buying concert tee's from a catalog.

Believe it or not, shopping at Goodwill, finding deals on clothes that fit.

Standing straight with my feet touching each other w/out falling over.

Fitting comfortably through public restroom stall doors.

Riding a bicycle.

Walking my dog, who at 25 lbs, walks me!

Not propping up, lifting and shifting in the shower

Having my nippies pointing out not down.

Weighing less than someone else for once.

Sitting in those folding camping chairs.

Not trampling people at shows to get to my row seat.

Fitting in that seat w/out my hips invading someone else's space.

Weighing less than my husband.

Gaining control of my Life.

Last, and most important...making my Mom (RIP) proud.

Sorry to for the loss of your mom :( You WILL make her proud. I believe in you! I love the nipple one! LOL Never thought about that until now. Now, that's on my list also :)

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Looking like and feeling like a normal weight person and never being the biggest in the room again!

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Everything you said.....LOL PLUS... I want to be able to WALK without pain!!! be able to get up without struggle, to have ENERGY!! to stop hiding and starting being the person I really am. to look like the rest of my family (everyone is average or smaller)!! I want to enjoy LIFE!!! :P:lol::rolleyes: Find :wub: Love!! Have FUN!!

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All of the above...but most especially the one about looking like the rest of my beautiful family...they all look so healthy and fit...and then there is me...5'6"...254....

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Loved all your replies bur looking forward to not having a fat mind and Beleiving I am a changed woman I am down 140 pound about another 70 to go x

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never really thought about it , everything everyone posted sounds good

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