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I'm 51 -- too old?

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thebug    0

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Hi, I've been seeing a lot of people with a lot of success on this site, and that's really encouraging, but I was wondering specifically if there are folks out there who were banded when they were 50 or older, and what their experience was like. My surgery date is May 11th, and along with being nervous about all the eating adjustments and possible problems, I'm also concerned about how my age (slower metabolism and all that) will affect my experience and my chances for success. Any "older folks" ;) out there willing to share?

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cwm812    11

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Yikes...Are you calling me old???

I'm 50 and I've been banded for 3 years. As you can see by my ticker, it's been a success. In some ways I think banding must be easier when you're a little older. My sons are 18 and 21, so I have more time to focus on me. I have time to go to the gym and I don't need to be at everyone's beck and call. As far as metabolism goes, I've never had any (it seems), so I really don't think it's any worse than it ever was. In fact, I exercise 3-4 times a week and I really think it's helped my metabolism. I will say that all the changing hormonal stuff is a bit of a challenge, but it would be with or without the band. I'm the thinnest I've ever been in my whole life. I know I was banded a few years younger than you, but I doubt it's much different.

Cindy

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54Shirley    105

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If it helps at all,, I'm 56, and Banded, and losing weight.

There is a few things that you have to learn for this Band to work right.

Once your Banded it takes time to get fills, and this band works with fills.

So I call it fill after fill solution. In the meantime you will be givin a life long

Diet to follow. Mine is between 800 - 1200 Calories a day, and 60 - 80 G of Protein Daily.

You have to do this daily if you want it to work. Some foods you may not be able to eat anymore (LIKE BREAD)

but you will get use to that.

You will have to learn to chew, and chew your food so you don't get stuck.

But until you even get there you will be on liquids, and Mushie food. Do a lot of Protein, it helps kill the hunger.

There is no reason that you can't come down in weight. You may never be Bikini Material ! but,,, neither will I.

So everyday is a new day, and you just keep going, and keep a journal on your food threw out the day.

That way, you will know how much you are eating daily, and won't go over.

Some kind of exercise is a must for continued weight loss. Especially older, and slower Metabolism. So it needs a kick in the A*s

to get it going.

I walk 3 times a week. I have 2 Titanium Knees, so I take it at a medium pace. about 20 minutes of walking. I don't want to wear these knees out.

So my days of busting my Butt are done ! No Aerobics, No Running. Just Walking.

This Lap Band takes time, It is a s l o w g o ! So be patient.

Before you know it, you will find your cloths getting baggy, then in time you will be getting smaller size cloths.

I just went threw this with my box of summer cloths. It really blew me away. And everyone on here has gone threw that, or will be going threw it.

So to old???? NO WAY ! Once you have this done, and start to see the difference, you will see that this can work for anyone that follows the rules.

Good Health to you, Shirley.

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OKCurt    0

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Hi, I've been seeing a lot of people with a lot of success on this site, and that's really encouraging, but I was wondering specifically if there are folks out there who were banded when they were 50 or older, and what their experience was like. My surgery date is May 11th, and along with being nervous about all the eating adjustments and possible problems, I'm also concerned about how my age (slower metabolism and all that) will affect my experience and my chances for success. Any "older folks" ;) out there willing to share?

I just got banded at 53. Good luck

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Dave_NW    92

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I'm 57. Check my ticker. I'd call that a success. ;)

If banding is the right choice for you, go for it. My only regret about it was that I didn't do it years ago.

Dave

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NoMoBand    278

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Just turned 51 last week. The band has really worked for me. Wife tells me I look younger and I feel younger. I feel like I'm starting out a new life. Exercising energy has come back and I'm really enjoying it. Life is good!

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ttny007    29

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Hi, I've been seeing a lot of people with a lot of success on this site, and that's really encouraging, but I was wondering specifically if there are folks out there who were banded when they were 50 or older, and what their experience was like. My surgery date is May 11th, and along with being nervous about all the eating adjustments and possible problems, I'm also concerned about how my age (slower metabolism and all that) will affect my experience and my chances for success. Any "older folks" ;) out there willing to share?

OMG never I am 52 and getting banded in June, this is the better half of life!! Now it's all about us. You are never to old to help yourself!

welcome aboard

TT

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CharlotteCS    0

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Hi, I've been seeing a lot of people with a lot of success on this site, and that's really encouraging, but I was wondering specifically if there are folks out there who were banded when they were 50 or older, and what their experience was like. My surgery date is May 11th, and along with being nervous about all the eating adjustments and possible problems, I'm also concerned about how my age (slower metabolism and all that) will affect my experience and my chances for success. Any "older folks" ;) out there willing to share?

Hi, I'm 55 and I was banded two weeks ago. I've lost all of my weight 4 or 5 times only to gain it back. I decided I was not going to live the rest of my life fighting my weight and being fat so I went for it. So far its been a breeze. Had my surgery on Thursday and was back at work on Monday.

Good luck!

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Richardson    1

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:rolleyes:

Hi, I've been seeing a lot of people with a lot of success on this site, and that's really encouraging, but I was wondering specifically if there are folks out there who were banded when they were 50 or older, and what their experience was like. My surgery date is May 11th, and along with being nervous about all the eating adjustments and possible problems, I'm also concerned about how my age (slower metabolism and all that) will affect my experience and my chances for success. Any "older folks" ;) out there willing to share?

Hi Providing you are reasonably fit then I think this would be Ideal for you.. even if you dont lose much the benefit it has it will stop you putting it on if only to get some balance..

It will help STOP diabetes if you dont have it..

Highbloodpressure.. helps to reduce

Joint pain in the knees..

so it can only Help!

But you have to pass the Clinical assessment prior..rolleyes.gif

best of Luck!

Dawn I am 54

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Richardson    1

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:rolleyes:

Hi Providing you are reasonably fit then I think this would be Ideal for you.. even if you dont lose much the benefit it has it will stop you putting it on if only to get some balance..

It will help STOP diabetes if you dont have it..

Highbloodpressure.. helps to reduce

Joint pain in the knees..

so it can only Help!

But you have to pass the Clinical assessment prior..rolleyes.gif

best of Luck!

Dawn I am 54

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LBS    1

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Hi. I am 59 years old and was banded on March 16, 2011. Pre-op liquid diet started on February 23, 2011 and I have lost 40 pounds with 70 pounds to go. Age was never a concern for me - my focus was and is on my approach and attitude to making this major change in my life. My energy levels have improved and I firmly believe that I will be successful in losing the weight and keeping it off.

Looking forward to my first fill this Thursday.

Good luck in your journey.

Allan

Hi, I've been seeing a lot of people with a lot of success on this site, and that's really encouraging, but I was wondering specifically if there are folks out there who were banded when they were 50 or older, and what their experience was like. My surgery date is May 11th, and along with being nervous about all the eating adjustments and possible problems, I'm also concerned about how my age (slower metabolism and all that) will affect my experience and my chances for success. Any "older folks" ;) out there willing to share?

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Cindy C    150

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I was banded at 49 and lost 115 lbs the first year. My doctor banded a 72 year old woman and she's had great success! You're never too old!

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TerriF    9

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I am 55 and been banded a week and 4 days. I weighed this morning and am down 20 pounds. I am one of the lucky ones that from the first day of the band I haven't been hungry and have to make myself eat. I am already eating regular food just not very much of it. Still a few pains here and there but otherwise feel great.

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      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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