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I must admit that I have been busy trying to get things for the doctor and working.I calculated my BMI and it is beyond comprehending.I knew I was above the requirements for the insurance company.I spoke to a lady with Belite yesterday.She said based on my BMI of 67 I may need to consider the sleeve.It was just a major reality moment.I am just at a point in my life that I NEED this surgery.It is not a want.I hope my insurance comes through for me.

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Does your insurance cover a sleeve? Some don't. If they cover a band, they should cover a bypass. With a BMI of 67, you certainly can benefit from any of the procedures.

I hope it all works out for you!

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I hope your insurance approves you quickly also.

btw: My starting BMI was 63, and I've done very well with the band. Research all WL surgeries 2 make sure you get the one that will work best for you.

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I must admit that I have been busy trying to get things for the doctor and working.I calculated my BMI and it is beyond comprehending.I knew I was above the requirements for the insurance company.I spoke to a lady with Belite yesterday.She said based on my BMI of 67 I may need to consider the sleeve.It was just a major reality moment.I am just at a point in my life that I NEED this surgery.It is not a want.I hope my insurance comes through for me.

when i first started this process last year, i had a bmi of 65. my surgeon, up until the hours before surgery, wanted me to reconsider and get gastric bypass. i wasnt sure my insurance would even cover me for the band because of my high bmi. i had my band done last week. at the time of surgery it was under 60.

if you have a 3 or 6 month waiting period, make it count! your bmi is 67 now, but if you start to adopt the lifestyle changes you will need after surgery, it will help you lose before surgery.

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I must admit that I have been busy trying to get things for the doctor and working.I calculated my BMI and it is beyond comprehending.I knew I was above the requirements for the insurance company.I spoke to a lady with Belite yesterday.She said based on my BMI of 67 I may need to consider the sleeve.It was just a major reality moment.I am just at a point in my life that I NEED this surgery.It is not a want.I hope my insurance comes through for me.

Your BMI does not indicate whether or not you'll be more successful with other methods of WLS. The reason they're telling you that you may be a better sleeve or bypass patient is because VS and Bypass typically lose their initial weight quite quickly and if you lose 50% of your excess weight, the surgery is considered a success. What they don't do is follow these same people for more than 2 years...and that's where their 'success' statistics fall apart. Talk to both groups of people and they'll tell you that at about a year out, the 'honeymoon' is over and you're in the same boat as the band people. Meaning if you don't 'work' that VS or bypass, you won't continue to lose and it's very possible you'll gain it all back and then some.

On paper, bypass and VS look like better options. The reality is that they're all the same. They all require *work* - using self-control, changing poor eating habits, etc. So whichever you choose, understand that it's not better because it's easier.

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my starting BMI was 56 and I never even considured the sleeve. I am happy with the band and even though I have a lot to lose I know that I can do it if I use the band as a tool and eat right and work out. I agree that you should research the different surgeries but I don't want you to think that the band is not an option. BTW, I had 3 months before my surgery and did not waste a moment on "Last dinners" or lazy days. I lowered my BMI to 51 and lost 30 pounds while waiting. It is amazing how much easier it is to diet and excersize when you have hope in site. For me hope was knowing that soon I would have an aid that would help the weight I was losing stay off and I would be able to get off the roller coaster ride of weight loss.

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Might just be too much weight to control w/ the lapband. I think the sleeve and gastric bypass have more built in control than the band does.

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    • Doughgurl

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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