I need to hear all the bad stories. I just need to know.

Sorry but I'm on day three and infection free!

Why would you want to hear all the bad stories when they may never happen to you? You may cause yourself more stress than you need. Stress and worry can cause you to gain weight and have other issues.

I have had the band since July 2009 and have had no infection issues.

With all positive things come some risks...but why focus on the negatives? I researched my procedure and my surgeon very carefully but once I was satisfied that the risks were within my boundries of risk tolerance and my surgeon was well trained and competant I made the decision to proceed and never looked back.

I am now one week out from surgery...have had no infections or other complications...my pain has been minimal and I feel GREAT...!!! I expect that as I get fills that I will experience a learning curve as the restriction increases...but all of us who have been banded are well aware of this going in. Life has good days and bad...gotta roll with the changes and live each day as it comes.

My advice: Do your research...find a competant surgeon who you trust...make your decision...and move FORWARD...!!! Do NOT dwell on potential negatives.

Good Luck in whatever you choose...!!!