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Wow I feel like I could have written your post. I ended up telling pretty much everyone in my office, they have all been supportive thankfully. My weight loss has slowed tons and now some days im even 2 lbs higher (im sure this is Water weight but it still bugs me) People do ask a lot how much so i feel embarassed when it's not a lot!

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Anyone who comments on my weight loss or asks in general, I just tell them the truth.

I've got nothing to hide and I may even help someone in the process.

However, do what makes you fell comfortable and good luck!

Becks

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Hi all, I'm not really replying. Just didn't know how to put up a general post so here goes with my very depressing news.

Lap-Band Aug 19th. Lost about 15 lbs in first month. Problem was that the wound near the port was not closing. Was not infected, but had healed in an open state. I'm an RN that has specialized in the field of Wound Care. I went back to the surgeon probably 6 times in the month to discuss the wound. I insisted to him that there was a foreign body in there (some sutures or something) and he kept telling me I was crazy. Finally, I insisted on seeing a Plastic Surgeon affiliated with the practice. The next day I was back in the OR. When the Plastic examined me, he confirmed that that the foreign body was the port and that the wound was connected to the port. The surgeon agreed to move the port, clean out the wound. Explore the lap band to make sure everything was ok. Worst case scenerio was infection and he would remove entire band.

So I awoke from surgery. Surgeon tells me that when he went in to move the port and explored the Lap Band itself, that the Band was covered by overgrowth of tissue that he has never seen before. He believed that it was my bodies way of rejecting the device. So he decided to remove the entire band. I am completely traumatized. Besides the trauma of the 2 surgeries in a month and the loss of what I believe was my only savior towards weight loss, I also took a loan for 10K to pay for this surgery or which they will give me back half.

Has anyone ever heard of this? Allergan will refund the charge for the device itself, but they want me to sign a release? Should I be contacting an attorney? I'm so upset. I'm in South Florida.

Please advise

Jami

jamigirl67@yahoo.com

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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