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Apart from the fact that opposites attract, why do men prefer 'bad girls'? Is it for the thrill of the forbidden?

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Hi !

Apart from the fact that opposites attract, why do men prefer 'bad girls'? Is it for the thrill of the forbidden?

That reminds me of the following scene from the movie "Arthur."

Shopkeeper: You're that billionaire guy. May I ask; how does it feel to have all that money?

Arthur: It feels great.

Shopkeeper: Stupid question.

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I'm moving this thread into it's proper area.

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Do they?

Even though I'm overweight, I still have a hotass perfect in every way boyfriend and I like to think of myself as a good girl.

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I don't prefer bad girls. I prefer easy girls.

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I don't prefer bad girls. I prefer easy girls.

Lmbao. Funny! I seriously giggled for 5 min!

seriously tho...the kind of guys who "like" bad girls, only like them while they are being "bad" after that they arent a second thought. Stick with being who you are and the right boy will fall into place.:biggrin:

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Maybe your just looking at the wrong type of guys. I think a lot of guys like to play with the bad girls but when it comes to them looking for someone to settle down with and build a life with they tend to go for a good girl.

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BAD GIRLS WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING SEXUALLY, GOOD GIRLS ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING THEY DON'T DO OR SOME TYPE OF RULE THEY WON'T BREAK.

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Good girls can be bad sometimes... and 'bad' girls aren't usually bad people.

Good, bad, we're all people. rolleyes.gif

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BAD GIRLS WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING SEXUALLY, GOOD GIRLS ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING THEY DON'T DO OR SOME TYPE OF RULE THEY WON'T BREAK.

I disagree. I'm a "good girl" and there are things I'll do our rules I'll break while I'm in a committed relationship...but it doesn't mean I have to go around advertising it to the world like "bad girls"! :lol: That line from Ludacris' song "I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed" is probably pretty accurate as to how most guys feel!

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I agree - its all about fantasy. I think men like a woman who can be bad for them and them alone but be a lady in public. And the kind of guy that really wants to be seen with someone who looksand behaves like a playboy bunny or a prostitute would appear to me to be insecure - kinda like a fast red car compensates for a small appendage, the kind of trophy woman that's all plastic and make up and overtly sexual behaviour compensates for a man who needs to create the masculinity he secretly feels he lacks.

Probably a gross generalisation but certainly based on observation!

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I have friends that ask the same thing but in reverse. Why do girls only like the bad boys and treat the nice guys like crap.

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Thats why I cant stay married I have split personality im a good girl that.loves thoes bad boys or im being a totle bad girl and cant find relationship or being good want a good guy but bord so I just suck at relationship and have fun and be me somebody will like the little nauhgty and good like song says men want freak in bed but lady in public . I live my life to that lol :) just had to comment funny topic be yourself and somebody always will fall for u good or bad

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