Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

Which is better?

1) Buying new clothes in a smaller size OR

2) Fitting into an old piece of clothing that was ONCE too small

I personally think that although new clothing is always a good thing, I would rather pull something out of my closet that I've had for years but couldn't wear anymore b/c it was too small and have it fit. :biggrin:

WHAT'S YOUR OPINION?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I agree with you. Unfortunately, I gave up on those clothes about 3 years ago - lol! I guess fitting into a smaller pair of jeans that I bought almost a year ago and vowed to fit into feels pretty good too!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Of course both are great when they are a smaller size!

I have been doing quite a bit of "closet shopping" and I'm loving it! There are a couple brands of jeans that fit my body type well. I have many pairs of those jeans in smaller sizes that I kept thinking, "oh, I'll get bank in those someday." Now I am slowly but surely getting back in them. I'm glad I hung on to so many clothes over the last few years as I gained weight out of them. I know it is a style I like and they fit me well. I don't have to go spend time trying on clothes and it has saved me a ton of money as the weight comes off.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I agree with the closet shopping! It is so nice to be able to fit into some of my clothes that I packed away years ago. It is even better when those clothes get too large and I have to hunt the box, I had packed away, with the next size down!

I still have several sizes to work my way through and then I will be happy to go shopping for new clothes.:lol:

I also agree that it is nice to be able to make use of the old clothes for a while and thus be able to save money for when I really have to get a new wardrobe!:biggrin:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I missed the boat with lots of clothing. Things I had bought and stashed away for one day when I lost weight.Many of them were too big by the time I remembered I had them.

Now that's a great(if costly) feeling.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I too love closet shopping. Today I wore a t-shirt that I hadn't worn for 5 years, and put another 6 shirts from the spare wardrobe into my every day wardrobe. My work clothes that were too tight now fit loosely, and my pants are starting to look a bit clownish, but the smaller size is there waiting, about 1 kg away.

I'm also looking forward to buying new clothes, but want them to be small enough to last a while. Plus I'm going to Canada and USA for the first time in 8 weeks, and hope to buy some new clothes there. Though I will need some new ones suitable for living out of a suitcase for 8 weeks - not planning to do any ironing on holidays.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I vote for the small clothes in the closet fitting. What a great feeling to try on clothes that were way too small and have them fit. Really shows how the body is changing. I have lost 69.5 pounds and haven't needed to buy any clothes yet.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

for sure smallest clothes in the closet fitting!

I've gotten back into all of my goal clothes and my very favorite back in the day feeling skinny goal pants are now too big!

Time to shop for new things - but I want to lose my last 18 or so pounds first :scared2:

I really NEVER thought those clothes would fit again.. NEVER :unsure: :wink:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have an even better one...

Buying new jeans that are too small. Letting them sit in the closet for about a month. Taking them out to try on to see how far you have to go to fit into them. And, realizing that they fit already!

But, really, all of it is great. I love buying new clothes, but its also nice to fit into old smaller clothes too.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Which is better?

1) Buying new clothes in a smaller size OR

2) Fitting into an old piece of clothing that was ONCE too small

I personally think that although new clothing is always a good thing, I would rather pull something out of my closet that I've had for years but couldn't wear anymore b/c it was too small and have it fit. :unsure:

WHAT'S YOUR OPINION?

I can't wait till I can go through my closet and actually fit into anything that is hanging in there. I think the only clothes that I wear now are t-shirts and stretchy work out pants. I have really let myself go. I'm set up to see Dr. Curry and get my psych evaluation tomorrow and to finally set a date for surgery!! I can't wait!!:scared2:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The sad thing for me is that I have been so big for so long that I don't have a lot of smaller clothes.....except for a few things in the next size down which i bought the last time I lost some weight. They still have the tags on.....so shows how long i maintained that weight. But they just about fit me again...so things are looking up! I guess I'd better dust off the credit card.... (Shhhhhhh...don't tell my hubby!)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I guess I'd better dust off the credit card.... (Shhhhhhh...don't tell my hubby!)

:scared2: I promise I won't tell your's if you won't tell mine!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

YOUR WILL ABSOLUTELY LOVE DR C AND HIS STAFF! I drove 2.5 hours just to be banded by him and don't regret a minute of the driveS. Good luck w/ your journey!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i think if you can buy new clothes, go ahead. new look - new wardrobe. besides you'll feel better!!! trust me.:scared2:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I hope I have as good as an experience with Dr. Curry and his staff as you have Sweetbean. Do you attend any of the support groups?

Sheila

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 1 reply
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×