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It all depends....fainting from the shear beauty of it is a NSV for us both....fainting from the horror of it is not a NSV for either of us...hahaha:biggrin:

I would post a pic of mine...and all you ladies would have your latest NSV hahahaha. kidding of course...lol

just wish she would put up pics to see what that pretty lady looks like!!!

beth is awesome....love your posts!!!!

DAMN i should have done the same thing....but why stop at a month??? i would have said well now that i got the band put in that is probably the norm position hahaha.:sad:

The important thing is....could you get me this blonde's phone number....HAHAHA kidding. But yea i feel bad for you. But just work though it and you will be fine. Communication is key between you two

HAHAHHAA yes it could be.

dump him...he comes back to you when his options dry up and knows getting with you is a sure thing. Do not get a loan with this guy and move on. at 24 your life is starting and with being banded soon a BETTER LIFE is starting for you. Wise up and take everyone's advise here...all good things you should listen to. Good luck!!!!!

Thats awesome....i feel bad for ya...but once a cheater always a cheater. I have two kids in daycare and if i was texting one of the young girls taking care of my kids its for one reason and one reason only :thumbup:........WOW i feel bad for ya. I am happily married and would never think about texting a 21 year old unless my wife left me hahahaha. Sorry for your situation.

Well i am a man and from my prospective its not all his fault. you gained the weight and he did not gain it for you. Were you making the effort before you lost to be outgoing sexually to him? He still loved you before but now he sees this sexy women he fell in love with emerge out of her fat suit and he has had an explosion of love. Dont be angry just embrace it. I think you may be thinking way to much into his actions. Your anger now can drive him away forever.....be careful and get over it. Embrace your new life together and be happy!!!!!!! Congrats!!!

HAHA i was saying the same thing the other day. I was like wow.....there ya are buddy. We have been strangers for the past 10 years....had to reach around my belly to hold him hahahaha. Now i can look at him while do it hahahahaha AWESOME :thumbup:

seems like your diet consists only of slider foods. Are you staying full between meals?

HAHAHA you no fun!!! :smile2::tt2:

OMG!!! BAN THIS GUY FROM WEBSITE!!! HE IS MAKING THIS LOOK TOO EASY!!! HAHAHA....only kidding...congrats on your success though....amazing. can you give us an example of what you eat/drink in any given day?

Were you banded 1/30/2008 or 2009??

thats awesome....i bet your husband likes the fact that you are putting on what he bought you......you go!!!! good for you......most times when i buy my wife something she fights it and basically i dont want her to wear it at all after that.

hahaha thats awesome waylay...lol

nah i wont do that in the mens room...haha now if this thread was in the powerder room then maybe hahaha

well the title of your post is actually true.......every 30 lbs a man loses he gains an inch in lenght...haha. I am down 50 lbs and with every 30 lbs i lose my wife gets happier and happier hahahaha.:cool2:

wow and i use to complain about having to drive 45 minutes for my fill once a month....i will stop complaining from now on. I hope things work out for you.

I thought onederland is losing 100 lbs.....congrats though.

yea your fine.......trust me bandster hell is not fun. i am almost out of it after my last fill.

Keller TX here...was banded 12/3/08 and down 50lbs. I got banded at Baylor Southwest in Fort Worth. Dr Barnes and his team are great.

dont judge restrictions on your liquids. what i learned is that when i eat dried foods like dry chicken, turkey, meat i get good restriction. I have had 3 fills, the first he put in 5cc's under x-ray so he could judge restriction.....next two fills were only 0.5cc's and my third one hit the spot. I cant say its my sweet spot but after 1 week i am down another 7 lbs. Be careful what your eating, i thought i was doing the right things but they were just slider foods and i thought they werent. I was eating salad with a tiny bit of dressing and doc says thats a no-no....all water and saturated fat...and this is a slider food....