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Everything posted by ms.sss
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Partner/ spouse support
Since losing the weight, I feel like my marriage got even better. But not just my marriage, but my other relationships as well (including my own relationship with myself) I gained a sh*tload of confidence and patience, as well let go of a lot of hangups and anger. This change in me does wonders in how I relate to others. My marriage totally benefits from it. On the flip side of things though, I also don't have room in my life anymore for those who I deem unhealthy for me and mine. I am no longer so eager to please nor do I bend over backwards to keep peace. So yeah, good relationships will flourish, not-so-good ones will fall by the wayside.
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Food Before and After Photos
Salad FAIL ? I ran out of salad greens so I just took whatever veggies where in the fridge (napa cabbage, pea shoots & carrots) and tossed em up with my vinaigrette. Well, turns out I don't like raw pea shoots, so I painstakingly picked them out one by one after the first bite. Also, I tried to recreate that baked egg and avocado thing that @MarvelGirl25 posted a while back, and I guess I left in in the oven too long, as the yolk was disappointingly UN-runny. So that was banished to the edge of the plate as well. *sigh* and I was so excited to eat it too .
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OOTD
Technically it was 15 years ago. I convinced Mr. to marry me again on our next family vacation (date and destination TBD). The first time around was a destination wedding as well, so I figure we should do a repeat...but this time it will be much smaller . Truth be told, I really just want an excuse to wear a super fancy dress! LOL, see excuse above.
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Daily Menus for Maintenance
Yesterday, Wed, Nov. 27 Maintenance : 5'2" / 1yr PO Sleeve / 113.9 lbs I haven't gone for a single run in 5 days now cuz of this stinkin' cold (as well as eating consistently less cals than normal). It may just be in my head, but I swear, I think I can actually feel my muscles disappearing... 9:30am - coffee w/ stevia + earl grey tea w/ stevia 12:30pm - salad greens w/ vinaigrette + enoki mushrooms + 3 oz grilled chicken + 3 oz roast pork + 1 Love Good Fats Keto Chocolatey Almond Bar. 3:00pm - 2oz almonds + 1 oz candied ginger 8:00pm - 10 mussels in white wine sauce + 2 tbsp seafood chowder + 4 buffalo chicken wings w/ 1 tbsp blue cheese sauce Totals: 1438 cals - 89g Protein - 51g NET carbs - 84g fat
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? Nov 2019 Challenge?
Day 28: What about your home are you most grateful for? Just the fact that I have one, I guess. It's easy to take this basic stuff for granted when dealing with first-world problems. HAPPY THANKSGIVING, USA folks ❤️
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OOTD
So I had THE BEST TIME playing dress up tonite. Me and the Kid went wedding dress shopping!!! I must have tried on about 20 dresses, and here are a few of them. The last slide is my favorite so far. I went in thinking I wanted a tight sexy dress and left in love with a ball gown of all things. OMG it was so much fun....
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Surgery Day! and beyond: Part 2
Seriously, I am really hoping my recovery is like yours! I had already written off any New Years' Eve partying this year due it falling so soon after surgery, but if I can come out 2 weeks later like you did in just 8 days...I think I may have to start shopping for some party clothes now, just in case ? P.S. thanks for the compression garment tip, again. I think I am going to order a few different brands cuz based on the size charts, I am not convinced this will fit properly on me...
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Food Before and After Photos
Ah yes! I totally forgot about montreal-style smoked meat (after Maple and Poutine). Dude, all this food talk is making me legitimately hungry... Absolute personal favourite place in Montreal (is actually 20 mins west of it): Smoked Meat Pete. Absolute personal favourite place in Toronto (is actually in a suburb north-east of T.O. proper): Sumilicious.
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Food Before and After Photos
LOL, of course. The only other food whose importance rivals that of maple syrup.
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Food Before and After Photos
Ok, so if you are ever game for a road trip to Quebec (NY is not so far away!), you should try heading to the area north of Montreal and sample some maple-inspired menus in a traditional "Cabane à Sucre" (aka "Sugar Shack") during the maple harvest in the Spring. The venues range from 2 Michelin star establishments to decades-owned family farms whose barns are stuffed with harvest tables to serve meals to the public during maple season. ....and when you get tired of all the nature, you can head back into Montreal and party it up.
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The Maintenance Thread
WOW. You refrained for over 15 months?! To me, that is impressive. Of course this is coming from someone who goes through a case (6 X 1L) of Perrier (or similar) in a week.
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? Nov 2019 Challenge?
Day 27: What are you most grateful for in your country? I'm grateful that the international perception of people from here is generally favourable. It makes for more pleasant travel. I find that when we meet people during travel, there is always a teensy bit of a face light-up, or some kind comment, when they find out where we are from. I think this is because we are stereotypically seen as non-threatening and polite? Whatevs, I'll take it My non-Canadian uncle once told me that he found Canadians to be unassuming and mediocre. He was a little taken aback when I said "Thanks!" Lol.
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The Maintenance Thread
Are you still looking to lose more weight?
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Food log app
I have the paid version of MyFitnessPal
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Food Before and After Photos
Lol, the stuff gets used up pretty quickly in my house. Here is a pic of the maple syrup we buy about once a year. (Milk container included for size comparison...) ?
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Daily Menus for Maintenance
Today, Tuesday, Nov. 26 Maintenance : 5'2" / 1yr PO Sleeve / 114.5 lbs Sick, Tired, Going to Bed early. Rinse & Repeat. 9:15am - coffee w/ stevia 11:30am - coffee w/ stevia 3:00pm - salad greens w/ vinaigrette + carrots + 5 raspberries + 3 oz avocado + 5 oz grilled chicken + chili oil + 1/3 oz almonds 6:30 pm - 1 oz cashews + 1/2 oz almonds + 4.5 oz crispy skin roast pork + 1 tbsp Peri Peri sauce + chili oil Totals: 1172 cals - 74g Protein - 26g NET carbs - 78g fat
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Daily Menus for Maintenance
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Surgery Day! and beyond: Part 2
Thanks for the tip! So you got the small? What size shirt do you wear? (want to gauge what size I would fall under...)
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Daily Menus for Maintenance
I have such a long list of Fluffy recipes to try out! I meant to do a version of this a couple days ago, but never got around to it. Not sure how i feel about the jello powder (unsweetened or not) so am gonna someday soon do one with choco protein powder and PB2 (with the chocolate sauce and nuts too of course!). So much food...so little time.
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Food Before and After Photos
And my whole country will back you up. ??
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OOTD
That dress is awesome. Um...and your shoes!!
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Daily Menus for Maintenance
um...no? LOL I'm going to try this with beef bones both on the stove and in the instant pot to compare . Thanks!!!
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The Maintenance Thread
Looking HOT, mama I'm suffering from boob and butt envy right now...
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? Nov 2019 Challenge?
I'll do a check in now, since I don't have Thanksgiving this weekend Surgery Deets: 1 year Post-op SLEEVE, currently in Maintenance Weight and BMI: Nov 5th: 114.4 lbs (BMI 20.9) This morning: 114.5 (BMI 20.9) ...hows that for maintenance? LOL 1. Personal goal(s) for the month Stay smoke free. HAVEN'T HAD A SINGLE CIGARETTE IN 26 DAYS. I think I am now in the clear!!! Be mindful about being irritable to Mr & the Kid. Been relatively back to my chill self since mid month Run. EVERY. DAY. So far have missed 5 days total this month. 3 of them has been for the last 3 days cuz I'm sick.
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Daily Menus for Maintenance
Us werido Canadians had our Thanksgiving last month. This weekend just means cross-border-shopping to us, LOL. Also, as the cook/recipe aficionado that you are, do you have a good bone both recipe up your sleeve? A google search results in so many to choose from, and I figure an endorsement from you would be my best bet. Please, pretty please?