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2 weeks from Today I leave for Mexico!!!

Good luck! You have made the right decision for you , at this time, and that's all that matters! Make sure your hubs pampers you on the way there and back!

:smile2: Hugs

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People, people.....! Please move on! No matter how much each of you rant and rave, you are not going to get everyone to agree with you!! You are all starting to sound like lunatics! (although I must admit that I am reading this thread several times a day to see who pops up next with a counter attack). No one here is an EXPERT and each and every one of us has his or her opinion...and you know what they say about opinions....Everyone on here has made some valid points (except for the name calling which is totally immature). No one is totally right and no one is totally wrong. Some are arguing just for the sake of arguing. Why don't you all name a time and place, meet and face each other and duke it out until the last man or woman is standing and he or she will be the winner! I will sell the tickets for this event!:smile2::eek::lol::eek:

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People, people.....! Please move on! No matter how much each of you rant and rave, you are not going to get everyone to agree with you!! You are all starting to sound like lunatics! (although I must admit that I am reading this thread several times a day to see who pops up next with a counter attack). No one here is an EXPERT and each and every one of us has his or her opinion...and you know what they say about opinions....Everyone on here has made some valid points (except for the name calling which is totally immature). No one is totally right and no one is totally wrong. Some are arguing just for the sake of arguing. Why don't you all name a time and place, meet and face each other and duke it out until the last man or woman is standing and he or she will be the winner! I will sell the tickets for this event!:smile2::eek::lol::eek:

Why? I think this thread points out the head stuff we go through during weight loss. The skewed thinking, the messed up way we do things. Our own personal prejudices.

If you don't want to read, don't pop in several times a day, just click on by. That's the great thing about message boards. You read what you want and ignore the rest. If it doesn't serve your purposes, don't read it. But why stop others from posting?

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Why? I think this thread points out the head stuff we go through during weight loss. The skewed thinking, the messed up way we do things. Our own personal prejudices.

If you don't want to read, don't pop in several times a day, just click on by. That's the great thing about message boards. You read what you want and ignore the rest. If it doesn't serve your purposes, don't read it. But why stop others from posting?

Always have to have the last word, don't you?.....

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Always have to have the last word, don't you?.....

Only when I am right. ;o)

Seriously, why do you want mods to run around closing threads? Why not just skip by them instead of opening it several times daily to get updates?

Instead of wagging that finger why not answer the question?

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Only when I am right. ;o)

Seriously, why do you want mods to run around closing threads? Why not just skip by them instead of opening it several times daily to get updates?

Instead of wagging that finger why not answer the question?

Seriously??? Because it makes me laugh! Oh, and I am SO sorry about that "last word" comment. guess I Was TOTALLY wrong about that one...And of course you are RIGHT and EVERYONE ELSE is wrong because you have been officially crowned "Queen of the Lapband World"! I bow to Thee as should all others on this board. But SERIOUSLY, when did I say anything about "mods closing this thread"? You no more have the right to tell me to skip this thread than I have the right to tell you not to no longer post here . And who's telling who not to "open it any more to get updates"? Puhleeeze, why not follow your own advice and move on? Oh, I forgot...because you're RIGHT! and I am definitely not "wagging" my finger at you.

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This thread has become like a multiple car accident - you know you should keep driving, but you have to stop and look.

Although there may have been a lot of different information for thought, it has been repetitive and now doesn't seem to serve any purpose but to spew anger.

Agnes has made her decision. Whether or not you agree, let's wish her good luck on journey and move on.

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2 weeks from today, i leave and I couldnt be more excited! Thanks for all your support! Whether you were mean to me or not, I only wish EVERYONE success and a healthy and happy life!

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Agnes, I wish you all the best!!! :thumbup: You deserve a long and happy life with your Husband and Family, and the children you will have. :thumbup:

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Thank you!!!

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just wondering... have many of you gotten really cranky and moody (esp the first 28 days) b.c you are only on liquids? I can see that being frustrating, however I am prepared!

I enjoyed a delicious cheed danish with my coffee yesterday, which i normally would never buy! LOL

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Agnes, I wish you all the best!!! :thumbup: You deserve a long and happy life with your Husband and Family, and the children you will have. :thumbup:

Good luck to you as well! you are doing fabulous so far!!!!!!!!!

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