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Hi everyone!

I am beginning to think about getting the lap band. I'm frustrated with being overweight and want to be "normal". I plan on going to an information session this Wed. 4/1/09 with a local doctor. What types of questions should I ask? Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks!!!

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Hi Eeyore! Welcome! I just finished up my six months of supervised dieting (lost a whole eight pounds! Yeehaw!) and am about to have my stuff submitted to insurance. My initial consult with my PCP was sort of nerve wracking...but once I asked her about lapband she was very supportive. I think it helps if you go in very informed about the process...I knew I had to do six months of supervised dieting, I knew I had to get a mental health check, and meet with a nutritionist, and so on. Just make sure you are clear on what your insurance requires and if your plan covers bariatric surgery in the first place too. My doctor and therapist were both very impressed with the amount of research I had done, and that I had realistic expectations of how the lapband works. I personally didn't have a lot of questions for my doctor, since I had researched everything beforehand...I just more asked her if she would be supportive of it and do my weight checks every month for insurance. She was wonderful and would try and write as much detail down as possible at each of my weight checks, and she wouldn't make me feel rushed.

It's been a long process...but it honestly gave me time to really reflect on all of it (and I decided to go to therapy the whole time too...even though I didn't have to), and I still feel more determined than ever that this is the right path for me. I also proved to myself that I could stick to something...I committed to the six months of Weight Watchers and going to the doctor every month, going to the surgeon consultation, the five hour nutrition class, the therapy sessions. There's been so much to do, and some of it has been a pain in the butt...but I am so excited now that I could be actually getting this surgery in the next couple of months. I've tried to be "extra" thorough jumping through all of insurance's hoops so that I will get approved right away. We'll see! I'm hoping to get my stuff sent off for approval in the next week or so!

So....long story NOT short...research the surgery, research your insurance requirements, and get started ASAP! Good luck!

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When I went to my first informational session, the doctor was very eager an interested in my situation...until he discovered that my insurance doesn't cover weight loss surgery. I became very discouraged until I did some research on self-pay options. I found a different doctor, local, that made it very easy and somewhat affordable...$9950. I am telling you this just in case you find that your insurance won't pay. Don't give up. There are ways to do it.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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