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excuse us gentlemen, a poll from the ladies

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do enjoy back door play on your self?  

17 members have voted

  1. 1. do enjoy back door play on your self?

    • been there, done that, feels great, like it
      80
    • wont go there, no way, no how
      60
    • been there, done that, no thanks
      23
    • never been there, but curious
      27

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JayTee562    1

JayTee562
Posted

Kinda like a Dirty Sanchez, huh?

Do not Wikipedia that folks! :)

NM - That is so wrong :cursing:

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BgB9    9

BgB9
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Done in the right way, a little back door stimulation can enhance things. Anything Mrs. wants to play around with that doesn't involve bloodshed is ok by me.

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CMTurner    0

CMTurner
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OMG. Can't stop laughing at most of these posts. Thanks for that. But for my 2 cents (ok a nickel). Been there done that. It all depends on how gentle and relaxed the people are. Like I said it was ok with the right person and I did live with a man for 4+ years who loved having his prostate milked. But then again several double shots of Crown Royal got his hard as a rock too. Not normal. LOL.

It you like it thats fine. I don't remember who said as long there is no blood loss anything is worth trying and I think that the anal thing is one of those things. As for why most men like doing that to women.....for one it is a tighness issue and its also a power/trust issue. Plus for the most part men are much more into the visual thing and that is a big deal in porn movies any more. Men also all think they want to be with two women (as seen on porn) until it actually happens and they aren't as "involved" as maybe they thought they were gonna be. LOL

Again, to each his own. But remember, if you trually trust the one you are with, there is nothing to be ashamed about in trying new things. Even if that just means taking a trip to the local adult toy store. Just please, please communicate. Let them know what you like/dislike and that just because you wanna try a few new things does not mean you didn't like the old things. Unless that is the case and then you probably should be talking about much more than play.

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bambam31    168

bambam31
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LBT is so educational.

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Oregondaisy    2,021

Oregondaisy
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We aim to please:thumbup:

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BgB9    9

BgB9
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We aim to please:thumbup:

Doesn't your answer to the poll question indicate whether that's true or not?:cool2:

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Oregondaisy    2,021

Oregondaisy
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Luckily, nobody has ever asked me to do that. My bf does like to be tickled in that area, but finds the thought of anal repulsive. I would probably have to rethink my feelings if that were important to him.

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Renob    1

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Never had a girl show any intreast in going there on me, and for the most part I dont have any intreast.

Now turn the table and its a new ball game both my wife and I like me doing things to her in and on the back side.

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keithf    2

keithf
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If there's a nerve ending and a way to reach it, someone somewhere will enjoy having it stimulated. Whether it's the touch they like, or the feeling of (no longer?) being in control, doesn't make any difference.

That's what makes sex so much fun. :)

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okwjoe    1

okwjoe
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Well to be honest.. When my wife and I after a wild party (in our twenties) we decided to do anal.. she loved it the first time.. and convinced me to try it too.. So she lubed up her "friend" and slowly slid into my ass.. well to tell the truth I loved it .. we stiill have lotsa anal ... I never feared that I was gay.. but I will never let a man do me..

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BillOh    15

BillOh
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It looks like guys are voting, but aren't discussing, lol.

B4-----BINGO!

Was going to say that, but you beat me to it.

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