Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Calling All MARCH '09 Bandsters - We need a name!



Recommended Posts

Hello all!

I'm just a few days off from surgery on 3/3. Has anyone experienced sadness about this whole thing. I guess I'm sad that I'm addicted to food and have to resort to surgery. I am also sad that I didn't have this done a long time ago, what a waste, so many diets, so much misery when you gain it back. I'm not saying that I regret this step it just makes me look back at all the time and effort put into weight loss over the years. Well, I do truly think this is the correct answer, it is the right tool for me. Guess there are all sort of emotions that come up. Anyone else feeling this way?

Hi Miss Cheryl, just read your post, i am feeling exactly the same i am getting band fitted 6/3 starting to feel really sorry for myself i miss having goodies so much i think i am addicted to choc, like you feel even embarrassed about having surgery, keep thinking something going to go wrong for me,deep down i know it is the right decision for me its an emotional roll a coaster at the mo i suppose its only natural, but this time next week it will be all over for both of us we be wondering why we got so worried and have a new life to look forward to god bless for your op, look forward to hearing how you got on lol x:smile:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My nutrionist has allowed me to have Carnation Instant Breakfast (no sugar added) with skim milk in lieu of those Protein Shakes. I'm on week 2 of liquids...surgery scheduled for 3/9!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think there are a bunch of us being banded today - just want to wish good luck and easy recovery to the first of the March 2009 bandsters!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

And our month finally starts! I know there are a whole bunch of us that are getting our bands this month and I want to just say YAY.....

I know I don't go until the 8th but there are alot of us getting banded this week and I know we are all tired and hungry, but we should mostly be so excited to be starting this journey....together!

I have gotten so much support from you all so far and I can't wait until we are all over this hump and can start really living our best lives!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am also a LUCKY LOOSER, surgery date is 3/6/09...I am really scared, I haven't been very good with my 2 week pre-op diet...I didn't see that it was that big of a deal, until I was reading some of comments...I hope my lack of concern does not change my date. I am having it out of town and had to make hotel reservations.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Got my surgery date for 3/13/09. Yes it is Friday the 13th. I think this will be one of the luckiest days of my life. I am scared and excited at the same time.

I am also having my surgery 3/13/09. I am like you kind of excited to be having it on friday the 13th. I am not in anyway scared of the date but I am scared to death in general. Am I the only one who feels this way. I think I am most scared that I am going to fail. And failure is just not an option.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Counting down to the 9th, I have not found the pre-op diet to be to bad. Mine is not all liquid and I haven't been hungry. I find that I do have some texture issues I didn't know about. If nothing rubs the roof of my mouth I'm not sure I've eaten. I have been pulling back from the food for about 2 months so I am doing OK for now. I really do wish I had eaten that Prime Rib like I wanted to last week before I started the pre-op. Oh well, I really want t be under 220 before the 6th, so I'll just keep pushing for that.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow.....only three days away for me. My wife was asking me the other night if I was excited or scared and I was trying to explain to her that I was neither. I think both MissCheryl and Shoes did a great job explaining how I feel. More sad that it has came to this point, embarrased that others will find out and nervous about how my life will change. I know I will probably have to spill the Beans at some point but when and where is the question. This month alone is my birthday, a poker party and a golf trip (all of whick typically include copius amounts of alcohaul and food). So now I have to decide how to deal with these social situation where I will obviously be acting "differently". With all that being said, I am excited and can't wait for the big day!!!!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I did my pre-op testing today, i'm sporting my beautiful admission braclet :thumbup:, and i have to be at the hospital for 6:15 in the morning! I'm the 2nd patient, surgery should start about 8!

YIKES!

It's really gonna happen!!

i know there are other getting their bands tomorrow also...

good luck to everyone else!!:thumbup:

I'll update as soon as i can!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

BEST OF LUCK!!!! to all of you. I was banded in March 2007 and have a soft spot for our month.

I will tell you it is lifechanging in soooo many ways. No longer do i live with the "stigma" of being the biggest person in the room.

I'm routing for all of you and your success.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

so how does this work? can we set up a distribution list on this site for the "lucky losers?"

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What are you liquid dieters drinking?

Today is my first day on liquids, I'm being banded on March 9th, one week from today. I had a Protein shake for Breakfast, then had some Soup for lunch - it was broccoli and cheddar which I ran thru the Magic Bullet to get the lumps out. Now I just had some low fat cottage cheese which I also de-lumped. Do you have a calorie cap to stay under? I don't think I do.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

And our month finally starts! I know there are a whole bunch of us that are getting our bands this month and I want to just say YAY.....

I know I don't go until the 8th but there are alot of us getting banded this week and I know we are all tired and hungry, but we should mostly be so excited to be starting this journey....together!

I have gotten so much support from you all so far and I can't wait until we are all over this hump and can start really living our best lives!

You're right, we're all in this together and need to support each other and cheer each other on. I started liquids today and I'm not hungry, I must have had too much. :thumbup: How is it that you're having your surgery on a Sunday?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My surgery day is wednesday the 4th and i am very nervous! I have never had surgery before and that is what is really scary for me.. I have been doing really good on the pre op diet, it was really hard at first but by day 4 it was a piece of cake. I am excited about losing some of this extra weight and start feeling healthy! I hope everyone has lots of success with their surgery.

Go Team MArch 2009!:)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×