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Well tomorrow is my Band-Day! I am excited, not nervous at all. My only concerns are I think the normal. Learning how to eat, what not to eat, will I fail at this...what if....what if...what if. LOL But over all I am ready and excited.

Who else is having their Band-Day this week? What are your fears and concerns?

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:w00t:Tomorrow is my band-day too!! I'm so super excited as well, a bit nervous though. I just want to get it over with you know. I have been having all those what-ifs as well. I think if we just take it one day at a time we will do fine. Good luck to you!:cool2:

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I am in the same place. My surgery is tomorrow also. I fell the same way, as the "what ifs". The thing I am trying to remember is that I worked so hard to get here.I made the lifestyle changes, now I have to srick with them. Hang in there. Email me, maybe we can help each other. GOOD LUCK!!!

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Cool, there's a bunch of us going in tomorrow!!:smile2:

I don't have any "what if" feelings I guess. Like you said, we've worked so hard to get to this point....it's just the right thing to do!!

Good luck to us all!!!

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Good Luck to all of you. I hope your surgeries went well. My surgery is 11/19 and I would love to her from all of you how things went. It is hard to wait.

I am so happy to have all of youto help support me. I don't really have much support otherwise.

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Good Luck to y'all. I'm sure your surgeries will be successful. My surgery is 12/4 and I fell the same way y'all do. Keep me informed.

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Hello....how are you doing since surgery? I had a hard time and just started feeling better yesterday. I ended up getting the flu!! OMG I have felt bad....I am eating ok. I am on the mushies and have no restriction. Just wanted to see how someone else is doing.

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:thumbup: It's been a week. I feel good, finally graduated to soft food!!!! Sunny...so sorry to hear you had the flu. That had to be awful!!! I hope everyone is doing well. Please let me know how everyone is doing!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!

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My surgery was 4th November and like SunnyOne I ended up with the flu as well. Lots of coughing which didn't do my healing stomach any good. First day back at work today. Start mushies on the weekend, thankfully, I'm sick of drinking. Feeling good though with no pain at all - only port wound to heal.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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