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Congrats on getting a date!

My advice is to expect to freak out at least once between now and then.

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Hey MacMadame -

I have an October 17th B-Day (band day) as well :biggrin:!!! Excited, nervous, anxious, biting my nails :cool2: - yeah, all of the above. Running to the store tomorrow for some last minute things for my recovery (ie, gas-x strips, liquid advil, broth, yogurt, popsicles, etc)

Guess I'm just trying to keep busy to keep my mind off things. Hope the next few days go quickly for both of us and then bam, we'll be banded!!! Keep in touch and let me know how you're doing. I'll pray for you and vice versa, ok?? :mellow:

Hugs,

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Hi just got approved today and my surgery is Oct. 17th also, wishing you both the best of luck!!! Nervous and excitied as well

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The interesting thing (I'm about 2 weeks into being banded-10/1 for me) is that while every experience is personal, there are a few things that EVERYONE seems to experience.

Gas...this hurts like a mother...the gasx strips are a little helpful but I only found relief from a heating pad and lying down/sitting up. There were times I went to lie down and (sorry if I'm being gross) but I'd pause halfway because I would have this wonderful, never ending burp that would just roll out. May sound gross but after dealing with those gas pains, you'll have a new appreciation for belching :biggrin:

Hunger...I've been hungry ever since being banded. The hunger is the lower part of the stomach...you'll be full 'up top' but starving underneath. I suggest meditating because I almost made a huge mistake by eating when I didn't need to (I did it once...big mistake).

Port Pain...Ouch. 2 weeks out and it's still sore. Nothing to be done for the most part.

the 'Blues'...I've had periods of regret...usually when I'm hungry and someone is eating a Whopper or fries in my vicinity. For the most part, however, I'm happy I did it. Blues are normal..you can get lots of help and support here.

Eating...Personally, I have no restriction and can eat whatever now. Some people get sick, some throw up, etc. The one thing we all agree on is following your liquid diet the first week, then mushies. Some doctors tell you liquid for 2 weeks and while you should follow their instructions, most people follow the liquid to mushies over a period of 2 weeks and seem to do okay with it.

Please understand, I'm not generalizing. I'm just taking what I've read and tried to pick out the things that MOST have experienced. You may have more of less or a different experience but these 4 things are what most of us seem to have in common. Hopefully, other people will add to these general things. Good luck to you and while I'm finding it is NOT easy, it's worth it. :mellow:

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thanks for the tips/advice... The gas is a little scary.... With surgery being on Thursday, I am going to try and go back to work on Tuesday and work half days from home.... I'm ready to get the ball rolling....

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I am also having my surgery on the 17th! I will be flying out tomorrow morning (having it done in Mexico at OCC) I am also very excited and also very nervous at the same time.

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Had surgery yesterday and was back home last night.. The only issues I have now are..

Back is killing me. Could it be gas.

Where the port is, I am very tender and feel like gas is there... It's very painful and hurts like a son of gun!

Any suggestions?

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      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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