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What are you doing to exercise? I honestly haven't done any exercise at all. I just wasn't in the mindset to do it the first couple months I was banded.

I was exercising and then when I started the couch to 5 K challenge, the arthritis in my knee flared up and the doctor said no more jogging and to lay off completely for a couple of weeks and start back to the walking and pool exercise. That was back in October and I haven't started back yet. I really do need to do it. I was walking up to 4 1/2 - 5 miles a day. At this point, I think I really need to do the exercise to kick the weight loss into gear.

I'm on facebook!

PM me your Facebook name and I'll friend you.

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OK, I'm a dummy and I can't figure out how to pm

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OK, I found you Orea and found Donna on your friend list so I sent you both a friend request. And man Orea you have alot of friends on Facebook. I have like 2. There is a couple of not so nice words on my wall hope it doesn't upset anyone. but I was a little depressed over the weekend but I've gotten past it.

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It's great we can friend on Facebook. WARNING: I'm a Mob Wars addict and I've invited my facebook friends to join my mob. You don't have to do anything, you can just accept my request and be a member of my mob but you don't actually have to play. I really need you guys to accept because I need the bodies in my mob to have additional strength.

p.s. My band status is a secret on facebook.

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Hello fellow butterflies! I have experienced hell all day... yes, I was car shopping.:) I would rather sit in the dentist's chair for a root canal than car shop. Just having to go to the dealerships and look for a new car made me angry at that woman who caused the accident all over again. Jeez.

Orea, I will be praying for you regarding your procedure.

Good night butterflies, I need to take the muscle relaxer and go to bed.:w00t:

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It sounds lik you need to good hug. {{{{crzytchr}}}} Too bad you aren't a local friend. I actually enjoy going to dealerships and shopping for cars. I've gotten pretty good at playing the game, too. One thing I learned the hard way: Don't just test drive the model, insit on testing the exact car you are buying. In one instance, the car I drove was fine, but the car I got never accelerated smoothly. In another, the used car we drove was fine, but the one they brought over from another dealership had a serious problem with the driver's side window. It wouldn't roll back up!

Remember, the power is yours, especially once you walk off of the lot and they want you back. Don't let them steamroll you. A couple times when I really did have last minute cold feet, they sweetened the deal and/or improved the loan percentage to complete the sale.

Good luck!

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Good morning butterflies. I have a fill scheduled for today but I'm going to cancel because now that my monster period is gone, I don't feel as loose as I did. I'm probably still a bit looser than I should be but depending on the time or type of day, the tightness fluctuates so I think I'll ride it out for a little longer just to be on the safe side. I definitely don't ever want to get too tight again.

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Thank Orea, I needed that hug. We don't have it yet. If we return today and don't like the terms, we will leave it there. Fortunately I have two older, but paid for vehicles I can alternate driving and just save the money if I don't like the financing terms. I need to pay it off in 16 months for my daughter's graduation so, I don't want to pay a lot of interest.

Donna, I also hated being tight. The hysterectomy left me a little too tight for a month and I stopped losing weight. Now, the wreck/stress has me a little tight, but it is only bad in the mornings. I REALLY don't like it. Good luck with the restriction.

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100 pounds gone today! :(:thumbup::thumbup:

WOW! WTG! I'm so happy for you!

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Hey folks. I got a fill on Thursday. I lost 10lbs in the course of about 3 months. My appointment had been canceled twice. What I have learned from all of this is that if you aren't losing and can eat inordinate amouts of food get a fill! I almost feel a bit foolish that I didn't just get one. I'm not beating myself up about it, but I certainly had an a-ha moment. It's just funny how common sense flies out the window sometimes.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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