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OK guys, this is gonna sound crazy as hell, and I want to know if anyone else here has felt this:

I haven't been banded yet, but sometimes I wonder if I already had the surgery and forgot about it.....lately I'm missing meals and not feeling hungry, and when I DO eat, it seems like I get filled rather quickly. Is it sympathy pains for my fellow banded brothers and sisters? Or am I seeing into the future with my gut??? Or am I just a bit loco??:biggrin2:

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Thanks for the vote of confidence, BJ!:(

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Actually, this has happened to me too over the past 2 weeks. However, I've been sick with bronchitis. That said, I'm feeling better and still don't really feel hungry. I ordered pizza last night for my "last meal" and it didn't even taste good. It's starting to get a little depressing simply because I don't have an interest in food. I think my mind is trying to prepare me for my pre-op diet maybe. I don't know...but you're not alone.

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I don't think you are crazy at all!

I am going through the same thing.

My surgeon asked me to start the South Beach Diet a week ago (just started the process to be banded a few weeks ago).

I have been following it very close and after 1 week I can hardly eat 3 meals a day & I get very full fast.

I do think its great preparation for living with the band...the goal is to eat less!

However, for myself...I'm getting concerned that I will be below the weight/BMI that my insurance requires for approval.

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I also worried about being under my weight for approval and my Dr said not to worry...that I was already at the weight that they would quote...for me 6 lbs over min. I am not sure if that is how your surgeons office is but it wouldn't hurt to let them know how you feel...they will prolly tell you what mine told me.

HTH!

Bobbi

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Not crazy!

I think we spend so much time thinking about being banded and what life will be like afterwards. There's no way that wouldn't have an affect on our mind. Also preparing for the surgery and thinking/talking about lap-band all the time has made me more "aware" when I'm eating, and I'm noticing true hunger and true fullness.

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Yeh, I have wondered the same thing, as I have felt the same way for about the past month. I'm being banded 6/10/08, with no pre-op diet required! I am putting myself on a 1 week liquid diet pre op. Hopefully that will make it not so much of a shock to me to be that way for a week post op! :lol: I think that thinking the way we do should be a reassurance that we are ready for this, and we have already changed the hardest part- our mindset! :laugh: Good luck!

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Nope not crazy at all. I have been trying to envision my new life (the feelings, the eating, how will it work, etc.) since April. If you constantly put your mind in that 'place' you will feel as if you already have the band. Our minds are very powerful things.

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certainly not crazy. I have lost about 35 lbs since March just thinking about having the band. I know I will lose more when I start low carbing it. I always have to think about eating when I cut way back on the carbs......they are just so horrible to make me want to eat everything in sight.

I think it is great you are able to make those changes....your mind is in a good place :)

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I'm practicing eating like a banded person now. As a result, I've lost 10 lb. But whenever I go below that, I get ravenously hungry. I'm hoping the band will fix that for me so that I can continue losing.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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