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Philip, thank you so much, that even in your grief, you have taken the time to share these comforting words with us. A love like you two shared is a rare and special treasure. I pray your many happy memories protect and comfort you for many years to come.

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I too am shocked at this tragic loss. Poor Blossom... She was so inspirational and a joy to all of us on the forum. I am so sad to have read this post. Phillip, I am so sorry this happened to your family. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Teresa

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Dear Philip ~ Nobody can even begin to understand the pain you are going through ~ but as you said, please feel comfort in knowing that Carolyn was doing exactly what she wanted to be doing on the last day here with you ~ and how many of us can say that? I looked again at her picture and her beautiful smile, happy eyes, and sunshine blonde hair and how young she was. "Blossom"....what a perfectly fitting name for a beautiful young woman who will remain in our hearts forever.....

Yes

by William Stafford

"It could happen any time, tornado,

earthquake, Armageddon. It could happen.

Or sunshine, love, salvation.

It could, you know. That's why we wake

and look out -- no guarantees

in this life.

But some bonuses, like morning,

like right now, like noon,

like evening."

Like "Blossom", Like Carolyn........

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Dearest Philip,

Thank you so very much for taking the time to share those last hours with us. My heart aches for you, may the good Lord give you strength to carry on and get that house built. Hopefully, building the house will occupy your time and your mind, and help you heal.

May God Bless and keep you.

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This is such sad and shocking news - my heart goes out to Blossom's husband, family and friends at this time of devastating loss - she will be greatly missed here.

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I'm so sad to hear this news. Thank you Blossom for all the times you gave part of your life to helping others here on LBT. You will be greatly missed.You are now a sweet little blossom in heaven.

Phillip~May God Bless you and keep you in the palm of his hand and carry you through your darkest hours.I pray you will find peace and always remember the love that Blossom gave through her life time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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My heartfelt condolensces to you Phillip and the family that was left behind, as many have said before take soloce in the fact that your sweet wife was doing what made her happy up to the last breath. Surly she is in heavan smiling down upon you now and for all your days.

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What sad news. Philip, thank you for taking the time to write during this difficult time. As so many have already noted, Blossom was a warm and kind presence here. She brightened our virtual lives, and will be missed.

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I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet wife. She was such positive force on this site for so many. I know there is nothing that I can say to ease your suffering so I will just tell you how very sorry I am and hope that God is with you during this trying time.

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Philip,

I am so sorry for the loss of your wife Carolyn. You are in my prayers . There are truly no words for such a tragedy. Just Know I am deeply sorry. Kelly Ann

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