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I was banded on December 28th and have done pretty well since. I had my second fill on Feb 18th and it brought me to 4 cc's in a 12 cc band. I am more hungry now than I was before the fill. I am also craving carbs sooooo bad. I pretty much ate whatever I wanted this weekend and I am so disappointed in myself. I am going to start over tomorrow, maybe even go on liquids for a couple of days. I guess I am just feeling a little depressed about these cravings. I really hope this passes. Has anyone gone through this before? I know I need another fill and I will as soon as I can. Just need some friendly support. Thanks.

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I was banded on December 28th and have done pretty well since. I had my second fill on Feb 18th and it brought me to 4 cc's in a 12 cc band. I am more hungry now than I was before the fill. I am also craving carbs sooooo bad. I pretty much ate whatever I wanted this weekend and I am so disappointed in myself. I am going to start over tomorrow, maybe even go on liquids for a couple of days. I guess I am just feeling a little depressed about these cravings. I really hope this passes. Has anyone gone through this before? I know I need another fill and I will as soon as I can. Just need some friendly support. Thanks.

Jaymie

Sorry you are having a hard time... Even when you are at your sweet spot it's not going to cut your cravings - I know alot of people say they aren't hungry when they have good restriction - I still am - especially if I am sitting at home doing nothing - Here is a suggestion - plan your menu for the day or week or even just a couple of days - make them healthy meals - meat veggies and just a little carbs/starches - I follow a ww type eating plan as I can't go without my starches with dinner especially... I feel that if you totally deprive yourself it makes you want it all that much more - right now I just made lunch for the week 1/2 lbs lean hamburger - onion - zuxhinne - eggplant - 1/3 cup rice - cabbage - Watkins Canjun seasoning - my one pot wonder - it will be my lunch all week - I have my Protein - veggies & starch -

Also, this is a lifetime lifestyle change in your eating - they banded your tummy and not your head - most of our problems lie in our head - when you want to eat and know that you just ate an hour ago - get up and do something - get on the computer and come here - clean your bathroom - clean out your closet - go for a walk - just do something other than eat.

You have to find something that works for you - you gotta work your brain - just cuz you can eat doesn't mean you should - you have to make the commitment to yourself to make the changes needed - Only you can make you lose weight not just the band - it's only the tool to help you - but the real work is up to you... You can do it ... Don't wait for tomorrow to do better - start doing better right now. You can do it...

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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