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I believe that this is not to even be compared to a c section which is so much more invasive. I can understand that you are nervous but you'll do fine; the surgery was a cinch.

I was very fortunate as I had no gas whatsoever. I heard that's the main thing that will cause you discomfort...or maybe you'll be like me and have none :mad:.

This is one of the best decisions I've ever made and I love my band even though right now my restriction is minimal!

Regards,

Alfie:rolleyes2:

ps first fill due on March 7

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I was also very nervous about "going under", but it all happens so fast and all the people are so kind and understanding that your fears just slip to the back of your mind. Next thing you know, you are waking up and it's all done! I too had a c-section, and I can tell you that there is no comparison. You will feel just fine, although a bit sore. I had my band done on Feb. 1st and am back to my regular routine. I get my first fill on the 28th, but have already lost 10 lbs. I guess it's that super delicious liquid diet! Don't be afraid - it will be the best thing you can do for yourself and the ones you love.

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Hi, I am also new to this and is scared like a rat lol. I am in Beaumont Texas and I have had my first consultation with a Dr. Humble. I went to the seminar and just mailed back my packet to the Bariatric Center in Beaumont. I am 245 BMI was 40. I have United Health Care and was told it was covered. How long of a wait do I have now? And what happens next? I have a couple of concerns. Is food hard to go down? Will I be able to eat at restaraunts but just watch what I eat? And what about drinking a couple of beers, Is that a no no?

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From what I have heard it is NO carbonation pop or beer or seltzer Water. I have had several surgeries in my life , a couple done with a laproscope like lap band is done and I have had a c section. It is scarey going under each time for me but it all happens so fast and then there you are in recovery. Amazing. I will pray for you. Keep us posted.

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Thank you Beanqueen for your comment. I am going to Mexico to have my surgery on Thursday. I am feeling a little scared. You comments were very comforting. Thanks!

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Hi All! I've reading over the posts for the past week or so, but have never posted. I have decided to get the Lab Band. I am attending the seminar on Wednesday night and making my surgeon appointment then too. I am SO excited but SO scared! I really want to do this, I really NEED to do this, then why am I so darn nervous? I've never had surgery (except for a C-Section) and I was never under anesthesia, and that's what is making me nervous. Any suggestions on getting over this feeling?

If it makes you feel any better, my surgeon said it only takes him 35 minutes to band a pt. I had knee surgery recently and it took over an hour. You should not be under long and it is not bad. The worse part might be when you WAKE UP in recovery and you might hurt from you incisions but the anesthesia won't hurt you. Also my cousin is a Nurse Anesthesist, they are the ones that sit at your head watching everything the entire time. Good luck, you have made the first step. I made that step Dec 12, 2007 and I am now in the process of getting all of my pre-op appts out of the way.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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