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Whippledaddy, Ryan... Where are You???


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Ryan, we know you're very busy taking care of everything. Hope things are getting smoother. When you have a few moments, please drop us a quick 'hi". (((Hugs))) to you and Patty.

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Ryan said a couple weeks ago that he's going to be focusing on getting Patty well, and that he might not have much time to drop by for awhile - remember, he's "Dormant 'til Spring"... :)

Can't wait for Spring, Ryan!! Hope all's well with you and yours!!

xxoo

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Thanks for all your caring and kindness. My wife is going downhill, and we don't know why. She requires full time care, and since we can't pay much out of pocket that means I must shoulder the load. Also I must pick up as much overtime as our strained state budget will allow.

So...........little time to post. I do try to look in daily to see how everyone is doing. I have put my needs on temporary hold. I've lost more and am near the three hundred mark, but not sure where. I have stopped the doctor's appointments. They are just not as important as my two greatest time priorities right now. sleep, and Patty.

So, I'll not be posting much for a bit, and they certainly won't be eloquent, as I have little time, and a foggy head.

I am praying that the warm breath of spring will draw in new hope. And will wish you well untill then.

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Ryan, I'm so sorry! I hope you get some good answers for Patty. Please take care of yourself and do try to get some rest. (((Hugs)))

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Ryan,

I sure hate to hear about Patty. Any clue's as to what's going wrong? What a heavy load you carry.

Just know that you are being thought of, AND missed.

God Bless you Brother!

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Ryan - Hopefully they can find out what is wrong soon. I know how hard it is to care for someone and work too. Please take some time for yourself too, make sure you get some rest. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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I'm glad you checked in with us, Ryan. I hope Patty recovers soon, and that meanwhile you can find someone to help with her care so that you can take a breather. She might be your top priority right now, but please don't neglect yourself. We're all thinking of you both and hoping for the best.

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