Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Shrinkin' Violets- Part 2 Read Here



Recommended Posts

HAPPY BANDAVERSARY!!! My skinny roomie. Thank goodness your skinny, cause I sure the hell am not! xoxoxooxox

Michelle~ You know what pizza tastes like, right? You don't need no stinkin' pizza tonight! I am riding your wave vicariously ;) so keep up the good work!

What do I win if I gain during our contest? There should be some prize. Last night the trap door (my mouth) opened...and never closed. Man, I never was a night eater...just a regular one. This is new...and I am a fat cow! F*CK!

I am off to mass, preop appointments, labs, and Walmart! I am looking forward to mass, haven't been in since I was in San Jose!

BBL

xoxoxoxoxoxox

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Happy Bandiversary Judy!!

I was 231lb yesterday, so I've lost 2lb since the contest started. DOH!!! We shoulda had this contest a month or so ago when I was steadily losing 2-3lbs a week ;)

We get free pizza today at the company meeting, but I don't like pizza, so no temptation there. If they have a veggie pizza I'll pick the toppings off, otherwise I'll make some oatmeal.< /p>

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was 190 today! nothing for the contest......

I just posted this on my blog..... it shows where my head is at I think.

Yesterday I recieved a FedEx overnight packet inviting me to be on the Lap-Band Patient Experience Council.. get this.. the conference is to be held in VEGAS and yes they are paying my way!!!!! I will have to be in a meeting 8-5 on Saturday and 8-Noon on Sunday…….. but HOLY CRAP BATMAN!!!

Suprisingly, my DH was NOT happy not even excited and basically tried to put down the hammer... "WE ARE NOT GOING" WTH??? EXCUSE ME???? It was a longgggg sleepless night.. and this is what I've come up with..... He is totally freaking out on my independence, confidence and overall outgoingness.... (all things that I've always been, but..... have been supressed for most of our 3 year relationship)

This goes back to my NUMEROUS trips down the scale..... the last time I lost 80lbs was right before we met...... so when I met him my butt was a size 12 and I was happy go lucky, independant and living life... part of what attracted him to me right???

Well we became involved, committed and an exclusive couple.. and I began to gain weight..... I would try to get back on the LC bandwagon and he would laugh, roll his eyes, and take me to dairy queen..... I was weak and I gained quickly.... every pound that reappeared would be like a nail in my spirit... so I was shrinking inside, depressed, mad at myself and disgusted with how weak my resolve was.... I was miserable with my fatness....... and even more so when I surpassed my previous high weight of 256..... getting on that scale at 272 was THE low point.. rock bottom..... that is why I ended it there.. I put myself on a pre op diet EARLY.. I started drinking LowCarb Protein Shakes with one meat meal per day....... and from April 1, to April 26 (day of surgery) I lost 19 lbs........ and its been a ride down the scale and down the sizes ever since..... I am very involved with my Shrinking Violets to the point that we are all meeting in TX in May.... (He supported me and told me to go, and so I booked my flight) He kind of passive agressively freaked out on this last weekend...

I go to my bandster support meetings and he gets a little itchy.....

NOW this.......... I'm getting healthy, looking good, excited about my band and have now been given oportunity to meet the makers of the band and maybe even shape the way its presented, produced, designed etc...... they want MY feedback and they are paying me for my opinion....... how freaking cool is that????? So maybe he's feeling a bit left behind....... a man's ego is such a sentive thing... and I've never been a wall flower.. he knew this from the start.. but maybe just maybe he is a bit threatened by it........

So this post has turned into something else... thats the way of putting thoughts down on paper.... uhhhh errrr computer

However.. I'm calling with my confirmation today....... He IS going with me..... and I've got to get right with my eating cause I'll be meeting a bunch of people from all over the US in JUNE!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What a bummer about DH.. how did you get picked? I wanna free Vegas trip!!

Let DH have his freak out, I think he will adjust! Just make sure you reassure him you're not going anywhere ;))

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

LOL Laura, that was my thought too

Tracyks - Did I write that?????????? That sounds like my story to a T except that dbf is now mental more mental than ever and 1 day he is freaking, and the next not.

I'm sure he is backed off the last couple of weeks because my bar is closed for a month or 2, it has been 4 weeks and I'm going through withdrawl. I only had a drink or 2 when out but it was my place, I stayd away for a long time because i Hated who I became so now I get such compliments that I love going just to feel good about me. And when I'm there he can tell with my attitude so he can tell when i'm home a lot too, I need ego booster but I'm getting more independent every day and I love it!

Pam- Since I posted my start weight, I gained 7lbs!!!! I have lost 5 of that this week but shit.. I'm feeling the same way, and does 7lbs feel like I was right back at 278... how strange is that? It was enough for me to get back to shakes and tuna only. I was starving at work last night but everytime I was going to eat something i just put it back and told my self what a cow I was and I didn't need it and that my dr is going to be so disappointed in me next week, let alone myself!

Anyway, I'm going to relax for a few then head out to work on cleaning my garage

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was named as a Leader in the LapBand community......... (I.E. my big mouth got me noticed) Someone gave my name to the allergan people and they actually invited me to a local meeting here in KC but I was out of town. I emailed them back and told them thank you but explained I would be on my honeymoon.. (I also told them I'm an HR/Benefits person and that my company allows our insurance to pay for the band) so I would love any documentation they had on the subject.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

NICE!!!

my big mouth just gets me in trouble!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow Tracyks that is so neat!! I am sorry you are having trouble with your husband though. I am not married so I can't totally understand, but I can empathize, and it does sound like a different kind of road!! Hang in there!!!

TERRY, I AM IN FOR NOO SUGAR!!! I woke up today wanting it soooo bad. I am totally with you. I hope I can make it!!

Tracyk and Pam HUGS!

Kat and Suzanne hang in there!!!

Haydee, Gina, Denise, Laura, Jennifer HI!!!!

HAPPY BANDIVERSARY JUDY, YOU HAVE DONE SO GREAT YOU EVEN HAVE A LOVELY AND STYLISH PIECE OF JEWELRY NAMED AFTER YOU!!!!!

I hope I didn't forget anyone!!! Have a good day and I am off to start a new day! It is raining and the wind is really bad. No sun, again!!

Jane

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ok.. I called the organizers and get this....... ONLY 12 PEOPLE are being invited! HOLY CRAP! (DH is more excited now)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wowza, Tracy! That is SO, SO KEWL!!! & you have all our experiences to pull from, too... you could say you have a "w-i-d-e" group to represent! (hardy har har!)

Yes, Pam, I know what pizza tastes like... THAT's the problem... I love it's gooey yumminess... ahhhhhh... but, I just got back from helping w/Sock Hop set up and I volunteered to work a table handing out fundraiser thingies that came in so that I'd be BUSY and AWAY FROM TEMPTATION! Am I a smart gal or what???

Have any of you tried the AchieveOne coffee/protein drinks? I ordered some off bariatriceating.com & they're not half bad. A bit pricey. But I use them as a "treat". They contain actual java, low carb, + 20g protein! I am going to take one over ice w/me tonight as another strategy... I'm putting it in my "iced coffee" Starbucks cup, which will make me feel "special". I know... I am weird... but hey, whatever works, right???

It's FINALLY a nice day here! Going up into the 70s + SUN! It's been cold & grey & depressing for EVER it seems. + the rain & colder temps (50s) are coming back tomorrow & over the weekend. So I'm going to go make a salad w/chicken on it for lunch & go outside & soak up some rays...

bbl...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh I meant to tell ya'll about this new Water I found in the gas station. It's called Talking Rain "Twists" it's pure water + pure fruit juice (just a little). It's 10 calories per serving for the West Indies Lime- which is what I got. They don't add any sweeteners- sugar or artifical- so it has no weird after taste, it's just really refreshing. They had a lot of flavors, lemon, lime, some kind of berry, peaches, mango.. So I got the lime, and it was VERY good.

Just got out of employee meeting, ate some toppings off of one piece of pizza.. maybe 1/4th of the veggies on top and its bouncing in my tummy. Guess that fill worked, I'm STUFFED.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ok, I'm convinced: Papaya Enzymes work great and quickly at helping you get un-stuck. They've gotten me out of a bad jam two days in a row. Go get some, get a pill box and carry them with you always.

Happy Bandiversary, Judy!!! ;)

TracyinKS - you are the bomb! Thanks for checking in. Do you know who nominated you? Pretty cool! What hotel??? (Most important question!)

Pammie - You're perfect just the way you are. Life is good!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Afternoon violetas~

TracyKS~ That is why we all love you...you rock!!! You started the Violet thread, you have done so well, are very knowledgable...and damnit...deserve a free vaca to Vegas baby! Hopefully the boys are staying home and you and DH can have a little fun too! That should get him to "see things your way" in terms of the trip! You do us proud girl!

I've had a packed morning. Went to church, got a special blessing from the priest afterwards for tomorrow! Got a car wash, went to Wally World (too much $$$ spent there), went to preop, then got labs and EKG, went to pay my co pay to GYN, went and checked the mail, went to another store to buy things that need the fridge (didn't want to buy Creamer at Wally world and leave it in the car all morning...too hot here). Then came home, did dishes, hid the new clothes I bought (that's right...you heard me correctly...but I know she will find them anyway), and now I am checking in. She should be here in about an hour, so I am going to work on diss for a while. Do you all know that only Susanne and you all know I am still working on my dissertation. I never told my father or friends, in case I fail again at it. That is pretty cool.

Have a good afternoon!

Did anyone ever see Into the Wild? The movie about the guy in Alaska alone? A friend loaned me the CD all by Eddie Vedder from Pearl Jam. Anyway, it is awesome!

PS~ I am having a Slumber Party on May 30! Anyone wanna come? Slumber Parties, Inc. to see what I am talking about!

xoxoxoox

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 2 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×