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I am new and I'm seriously constantly getting weight loss surgery. A lot of people have warned me against it saying it's too risky. Telling me I could die and everything of that nature. I'm scared but it is really something I am wanting to do. I'm hoping that others who have went before me can give me some insights. Thanks in advance

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I am new and I'm seriously constantly getting weight loss surgery. A lot of people have warned me against it saying it's too risky. Telling me I could die and everything of that nature. I'm scared but it is really something I am wanting to do. I'm hoping that others who have went before me can give me some insights. Thanks in advance
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A lot of the people around you are uninformed around weight loss surgery. Go to an information session, then chat to a surgteon about your circumstances and what surgery may work well for you, discuss with the surgeon complications rates, risks etc and go from there.

It's not to say that some people don't have significant issues following weight loss surgery and indeed some have passed away, but usually there are extenuating circumstances.

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well, people have died from tonsillectomies and wisdom tooth extraction, but then...how many people are we talking about? Your chances of dying are higher than THAT, but the mortality rate is 0.3% of dying from gastric bypass, and lower for the sleeve (I can't remember the rate for the sleeve, other than it's lower). So you have at least a 99.7% chance of NOT dying, which I'd say are excellent odds.

I think a lot of people - esp oldsters like me - remember the old intestinal bypasses and other weight-reducing surgeries they did 30+ years ago, and yes, those WERE risky. But the surgeries they do now are very different - and they're really no more risky than having your gall bladder out. They're safer than hip replacement surgeries, which are done every day.

just do your research. I was very surprised when I did - my perceptions of weight loss surgery were proven wrong, and I'm so glad I had it done.

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Start with talking to your regular doctor. He/She will have a great idea whether or not it's a good fit for you. If you disagree, get a second opinion. Most doctors embrace weight loss surgery now when the appropriate criteria are met. Talk to your doctor about benefits-vs-risks for your specific situation and health.

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@catwoman7 I just had my pre-op with my surgeon last week - I am fairly sure he said the fatality rate of the gastric sleeve is also 0.3%.

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dumping syndrome affects about 30% of RNYers, supposedly. I've never dumped and know many people who haven't - and for those who do, it can be controlled by limiting (and for some, avoiding) sugar (some people dump on fat, but sugar is the major culprit). It does happen with sleevers, but it's not as common as it is with RNYers

I don't know how many people have to have their gall bladders removed - some, yes - but I don't know too many who have.

Hair loss - very common. But it's temporary - and many of us don't lose enough for others to notice (but WE notice it, of course!). I think I can speak for most vets by saying in retrospect, it was a minor annoyance and a small price to pay.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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