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Hi, I'm trying to take back control of my life. I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes on St. Patricks Day. I initially got the cr@p scared out of me by the Diabetes Education Group I went to and subsequently lost 3 pant sizes. Unfortunatly fear only lasts as incentive just so long, and the pounds have been creeping [ok LEAPING] back on. I have started investigating the lap-band as a way to give me the 'extra' control I don't seem to have naturally. Am I on the right track, and has anyone had good results with getting their Diabetes under control using the Lap-band system??

I'm also 52, live in Florida, and the mother of an Asperger teenager [no stress THERE!], married for 32 years, and have 5 dogs :-P.

I want more than anything to....

GITRDONE

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I was banded in April and have lost 53 lbs! It has changed my life. I feel SO much better. Still have 90 lbs to go and for the first time in my life have no doubt that it will come off. It is a great TOOL! Since it gives the feeling of fullness after only a small amount of food it HELPS me to push away from the table the minute I feel satisfied, but it is still a choice I have to make everytime I eat. You can sabotage the band by overeating or grazing or eating too many high calorie or high fat foods.

I do not have diabetes but I am an RN and can tell you that losing the weight will help reduce the amt of insulin needed to control your blood sugar and make it much easier to maintain acceptable blood sugar levels. I would suggest doing a search in your area for Bariatric Centers and make an appt for a consultation where they can explain the surgery and answer all your questions. Hope you will consider becoming a member of "The Losers' Club"! We are a pretty happy group!

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I am in the same boat, I can lose the weight but it does creep and leap right back on your body... it is some what depressing but it is very nice to know I am not alone. Keep your head up and best wishes

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This is a wonderful tool. It is not a miracle surgery, you still have to make proper choices, but it sure is easier with the band.

I say do it, you are in the grip of a deadly disease, and this procedure could save your life.

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I could not agree with you more. I know it has me, no matter how hard I try to get out of it I just can't seem to. Diet and exercise seem like a joke when the mountain in 100 miles ( or a 100 pounds) high. This thing this disease, plays tricks on your mind and makes a horrible joke of the body. I need an out before the "out" (death) gets me...

Thank you for the kind words of support (teary) I needed them

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Well I don't have diabetes but I do have a band...thank goodness !!!! My mom has heart disease, diabetes, osteoarthritis, has had a stroke and is morbidly obese...I know exactly what my future looked like and that is why I took the steps I did.

Everyone is different and we all have to make our own choices and decide what we can live with... As someone else said, the band is only a tool, it's not a cure-all or quick fix. But if you are willing to make some lifestyle changes *and* realize that getting the band means those changes will have to last for the rest of your life, I would tell you to go for it !!!

On another note....the clinic where I had my surgery done in WA state is very lucky to have a fill nurse there who is very educated on banding and has had her band for almost 10 years. As much as she knows about bands, her *specialty* is diabetes and she has written and published books on both topics. You can look her up in Amazon or Google her if you are interested in her band or diabetes books...her name is Dr. Jessie H. Ahroni.

All the best in your decision !!!

Patricia

11/16/06 - band date

306/206/175ish I think

Surgery/today/goal

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Thank you all for your input. You've made it easier for me to decide.

Gitrdone

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thank you so much...i'll check her out

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      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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