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Only the weekend to go now. I'm so excited for you all. Remember to breathe and be excited to explore the differences you've already experienced along your journey to this point. You've already become a newer, slimmer self, so you're already successful! You are going to rock your surgery! I'll look for you on the post-op threads next week. Keep us posted as to how you are going and feeling next week.

Hugs & blessings.

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5 hours ago, Machalo said:

Only the weekend to go now. I'm so excited for you all. Remember to breathe and be excited to explore the differences you've already experienced along your journey to this point. You've already become a newer, slimmer self, so you're already successful! You are going to rock your surgery! I'll look for you on the post-op threads next week. Keep us posted as to how you are going and feeling next week.

Hugs & blessings.

Yes, only the weekend. I'm very nervous and excited. I got all of my instructions from the Surgeon's office and hospital today. They have me drinking 20 oz Gatorade (I'm going to assume sugar free cause, duh) the night before between 8 and 9 p.m. and they want me to drink another in the morning, before 11 a.m. (surgery is scheduled for 2:45 p.m.). I never heard of drinking more than a sip of Water with your pills before surgery. They said helps patients not become dehydrated. I will follow their orders, but it makes me a little nervous about the day of.

I'm sure this weekend will fly by. Tomorrow is my relaxing day. I'm getting my hair done, going to the salt cave (it helps with anxiety, allergies, asthma, etc.) and maybe a pedicure, no nail polish, just to have smooth feet and it feels good. I even though about a facial, but I also want to not drag my husband to all these places, though he'd gladly come with me. He's the best. he got me a new Fitbit. So supportive.

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That makes me feel really happy that your husband is so supportive of your journey. Mine hasn't even wanted the subject to be brought up. We're going to have a conversation about how much that hurts my feelings this weekend, and then we'll see how it goes.

Try to post a thumbs up or something Monday evening to let us know you're doing well. I'll be saying prayers for you and your surgeon that everything is smooth and uneventful.

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1 minute ago, Machalo said:

That makes me feel really happy that your husband is so supportive of your journey. Mine hasn't even wanted the subject to be brought up. We're going to have a conversation about how much that hurts my feelings this weekend, and then we'll see how it goes.

Try to post a thumbs up or something Monday evening to let us know you're doing well. I'll be saying prayers for you and your surgeon that everything is smooth and uneventful.

Thank you, I appreciate that so much. I agree with talking to your spouse. I have been open with mine. I have cried, told him all of my "Whys," and he even came to one of the support groups with me, because I wanted him to hear the stories of those who have already have it, as well as the people like me who have not yet had it. He still says, "You can back out," and I know that's only out of fear. just like when we're like, "What am I doing?" I have had one safe surgery, I'm praying for another. My son and my husband need me and I desperately want to be with them as long as I can (hence, why I want my health back). I don't have a house, I rent; I don't have a ton of money, but we're ok (there could be more in the bank though....), but I'm rich in those two guys that love me so much. I'm thankful for my other family that supports me, my work friends, who are super supportive and for everyone on here.

I'll let you all know how I am when I'm on the loser's bench :)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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