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On 08/10/2019 at 10:44, GreenTealael said:





I personally can't wait for you to discuss your improved health! You maybe surprised how much you want to talk about it 💜


I can just imagine. I’ll probably start doing commercials for weight loss surgery!! Haha

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25 minutes ago, Chiptress said:
4 hours ago, GreenTealael said:




I personally can't wait for you to discuss your improved health! You maybe surprised how much you want to talk about it 💜

I can just imagine. I’ll probably start doing commercials for weight loss surgery!! Haha

So very possible!

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This surgery can’t come soon enough! Every damn part of my body hurts from my knees, hips, legs feet etc. I’m only 58 5’2 (apparently lost a damn inch) & 235. My body since January is NOT HAVING IT!
Can’t wait until the day I never have to speak one word about my health. It’s the most boring subject on the planet . I have developed all kinds of co-morbidities!! My surgery was postponed for a week & as frustrated as I am. I understand that I have to be in the best position to have this surgery. I am just soo frustrated about the daily pain & I’m so eager to reset my life & begin again!! No one ever wants to live their life in this stupid pain. It physically & emotionally hurts so much because I don’t even want to leave the house.
I thought I was the only one feeling this way !!! when is your surgery ? Mine is Aug 29th.

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On 08/12/2019 at 12:06, ljmasse said:

I thought I was the only one feeling this way !!! when is your surgery ? Mine is Aug 29th.

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Hi ljmasse! 1 week from now 8/19/19! You’re 10 days after me! Good luck to both of us! I was pretty nervous & anxious about it but as it gets closer & I’ve begun to understand how to take my prescriptions, & understand everything I need to do I’m becoming more excited! How are you feeling?

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Same here. I cannot wait to get moving faster and without pain

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This surgery can’t come soon enough! Every damn part of my body hurts from my knees, hips, legs feet etc. I’m only 58 5’2 (apparently lost a damn inch) & 235. My body since January is NOT HAVING IT!
Can’t wait until the day I never have to speak one word about my health. It’s the most boring subject on the planet . I have developed all kinds of co-morbidities!! My surgery was postponed for a week & as frustrated as I am. I understand that I have to be in the best position to have this surgery. I am just soo frustrated about the daily pain & I’m so eager to reset my life & begin again!! No one ever wants to live their life in this stupid pain. It physically & emotionally hurts so much because I don’t even want to leave the house.
I hear you and so understand you .
Today I'm barely walking cause my back are so soared .
My surgery is planned for 30.of August
Can't wait to forget about these pains

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On 8/12/2019 at 12:17 PM, Chiptress said:
On 8/12/2019 at 12:06 PM, ljmasse said:

I thought I was the only one feeling this way !!! when is your surgery ? Mine is Aug 29th.

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Hi ljmasse! 1 week from now 8/19/19! You’re 10 days after me! Good luck to both of us! I was pretty nervous & anxious about it but as it gets closer & I’ve begun to understand how to take my prescriptions, & understand everything I need to do I’m becoming more excited! How are you feeling?

Chiptress, I just left my surgeons office and starting to feel better. I take HCTZ for my blood pressure and he told me I could say good bu to that medication because my blood pressure will start to regain control before I leave the hospital and the swelling in my hands and feet will start to go down. Like you, I just want the pain to go away so I can live life again ! we should stay in touch !

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