Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

They told me before I was cleared that divorce is something that happens in a large % of people. Maybe talk to your spouse and try to get the the bottom of the negativity

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

9 minutes ago, Marc M. said:

Anyone else out there that is struggling with a spouse/significant either that is reacting negatively to you having surgery?

My husband has been really supportive so far. It's only been a month for us coming out of surgery and maybe your spouse just needs time to adjust to the "new you". It's probably quite different for them to get used to us needing to take time now to take care of ourselves more than we were pre-surgery, both physically and nutritionally. Try explaining that you're doing this for them and your family so you can be the best husband and father you can be.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

April Gastric Bypass surgery

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

April 2019

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congratulations to You All,mow your First Month Post-Surgery has started, may all of Your Paths be Smooth!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hello ladies I'm 4 days post OP and I'm feeling great today!!! Started my Proteins today and the only problem is when I sip the spasm in my stomach dont help. Will that go away soon? And when I sip and it hurts do I keep sipping or stop?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Slow it way down.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hello ladies I'm 4 days post OP and I'm feeling great today!!! Started my Proteins today and the only problem is when I sip the spasm in my stomach dont help. Will that go away soon? And when I sip and it hurts do I keep sipping or stop?
Yes slow it down n sip it in 30 mins...that is painful to feel... Jus grateful it doesn't last long!

Sent from my LM-X410(FG) using BariatricPal mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On 4/30/2019 at 5:32 AM, mgrand said:

Are you getting enough Water and Protein? And exercising?

Hi

no I’m trying to drink more but making my stomach spasm and feel sick x

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

April 4th here!

5' 3"

HW: 269

SW: 251.2

CW: 222

GW: 150-ish

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ladies I'm 6 day post OP and today I've been having bad stomach spasm on and off, should I be concerned? Thanks

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ladies I'm 6 day post OP and today I've been having bad stomach spasm on and off, should I be concerned? Thanks
In my opinion, it's pretty common. If they gave you hyoscyamine, you can use that for spasms. It helped me a ton!

Sent from my Pixel 3 XL using BariatricPal mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

April 11 vsg
Hw:249
Sw: 221
Cw: 207

I haven't been on the forum since surgery, but it's been going great. Surgery day was awful in terms of being uncomfortable and nauseated. Day 2 was better and I was determined to go home so I made sure to get my liquids in on schedule otherwise I would have had to stay in the hospital until I could meet their guidelines.

I had incision pain, but only took gabapentin, the narcotics didn't help and made me loopy and I was worried about dependence since I'm susceptible to that.

I started back swimming last week (2.5 weeks from surgery). I do a deep Water aerobics class twice a week, but haven't gotten back to lap swimming yet.

I'm still on pureed food but have cheated with a little bit of meat here and there, but I have no problem with meat. I had a couple instances of pushing my restrictions because I ate egg salad too fast. I need to work on slowing down eating, but pureed foods go down quick.

Overall I'm very happy with the results, lack of complications and the fact that I have a whole new wardrobe available to me (lost weight once before taking Saxenda, gained it all back after I stopped the meds, but kept all the skinny clothes.)

Sent from my SM-G950U using BariatricPal mobile app

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Monster is checking in to report she is at 221 pounds so far (surgery was April 1, 2019), and I discovered today by going to the thrift store I can fit into size 12 Lululemon yoga pants. The black ones. You know the ones! They fit!!! Plus a gorgeous velvet dress I would have never gotten into two months ago, or even one: bought it today for $10 and........ IT. FITS.

~swoon~

A girl could get used to this 😄

Transparency: what I am able to eat now, one month into the pouch:

Almonds and other roasted, salted nuts - the pouch loves them

Brussels sprouts - boiled until soft, then salted and/or roasted - the pouch loves them

Cooked beets - a little touchy but can handle them in moderation

Those little Protein packs that contain almonds, Colby Jack cubes and ham/turkey cubes at Ralphs - loves em

Sardines - it likes them, can handle in moderation - very high protein though so I make sure to eat them

Red Bull and I know I shouldn't - pouch likes it

Red wine and I know I shouldn't - pouch OK with it but no buzz. Alcohol has no effect (disclaimer this is unusual, do not use alcohol unless your surgeon and nutritionist say you can). Very weird. Pouch treats it as Kool-Aid and I am unsure why. But I cannot overdrink. About an ounce is far as I can go before pouch fills and stops me.

V-8 tomato/veggie drink: recommended. Almost nothing makes body and pouch both as happy.

cheese - pouch likes cheeses but finds cheddar a bit tough to digest, prefers Colby Jack etc

What the pouch cannot stand:

Prunes which is sad: they loosen me up and I like the taste. Pouch says firm no

eggs of any kind, again which is sad. I loved them

Most meats, but I'm a former vegan, I can do without as long as I find sufficient replacement protein

Most vegetables so far. This makes me ANGRY. Will continue to test, try, and gently adapt the pouch to em

Things pouch looks sideeye at me if I even consider eating, so I have not and will not:

Anything crunchy/salty with points and edges such as chips, pretzels and my beloved avocado Triscuits 😭

Milk of any kind

Sweets, but then I hated those anyway, good riddance

Eating more than about 400-450 calories per day. It's difficult. It is truly HARD. I have a big day of what I think is eating then measure everything, check the calories I had and find I just cannot reach 500 calories. Can't do it. This is a work in progress. Every day is an opportunity to trick the pouch into accepting a healthy food. It's very cunning. It knows what it wants (450 tops) and will manipulate to get it. Nobody warned me of this. Seems ideal doesn't it? Wait until you get here. The low calorie intake will worry you. Taking Vitamins like crazy to help.

Stuff I used to love but mysteriously do not crave now:

Coca Cola/Pepsi and similar products, sugar free or not. For some reason the taste for this is just not there.

Breads, chips, salty crunchies except nuts, or sweets. No desire whatsoever.

Hamburger type meat, burgers, steaks, hot dogs, chili - no desire for em

Sushi. This was my big one. My super crave. Now I drive right past a sushi joint and don't care. Scary

But new yoga pants in skinny girl size FIT. Vintage 1950's cocktail dress at thrift store FITS.

Everything fits. I'm over the moon. God bless this surgical procedure. Report out!

EDITED TO ADD: And this is just 36 days after the surgery!!!!

Edited by beautifuldaymonster

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • vsg.with.sharon

      Hey everyone!
      I’m new here! Looking for some friends! 🥰
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×