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Rubyfit4life

By Rubyfit4life, in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums

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Rubyfit4life    75

Rubyfit4life
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looking for a sleeve buddy. I'm 27 in California surgery date is 12/6 looking for a sleeve buddy with a close sleeve date to mine so we can keep each other motivated since I'm a semi secret sleever.

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Rubyfit4life    75

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9 hours ago, memefriend66 said:

Hello happy thanksgiving I am thankful and I am here as a support for you I’m in Baton Rouge

Happy thanksgiving! When is your surgery date?

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TierraSaidIt    6

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Hey! I’m awaiting insurance approval but my date will be in December sometime


HW 304 CW 300 GW 190
December surgery not yet scheduled
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Rubyfit4life    75

Rubyfit4life
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5 hours ago, memefriend66 said:

My surgery was 11/20/17

Congrats!!! How is your recovery going?

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Rubyfit4life    75

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4 hours ago, TierraSaidIt said:

Hey! I’m awaiting insurance approval but my date will be in December sometime


HW 304 CW 300 GW 190
December surgery not yet scheduled
VSG [emoji1491]

I hated waiting for my approval seemed like forever lol where are you from?

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TierraSaidIt    6

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I hated waiting for my approval seemed like forever lol where are you from?

St. Louis


HW 304 CW 300 GW 190
December surgery not yet scheduled
VSG [emoji1491]

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megslc18    8

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My sleeve is scheduled for 12/4, I am on the pre-op diet now. I am semi-secret as well, only my immediate family, boyfriend and one friend know. It is hard to keep secret, particularly since co-workers are very nosy!


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Rubyfit4life    75

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My sleeve is scheduled for 12/4, I am on the pre-op diet now. I am semi-secret as well, only my immediate family, boyfriend and one friend know. It is hard to keep secret, particularly since co-workers are very nosy!




It is very hard to keep it a secret . Everyone at my job thinks I’m going on vacation for two weeks. I have only told my boyfriend and my sister about my surgery. No one else knows.


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Rubyfit4life    75

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Hi! Semi secret sleeved here too! I’m 20 years old in college still but need to make this change! getting sleeved a little after you on 12/18!




Yay congrats. At least you’ll have your surgery during winter break. Great timing


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Melting_Away    4

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Yes! 2 days after I get back from finals. But that will give me a full month recovery! I’ve only told my roommates because they’re crazy observant, parents, my best friend & boyfriend! Other than that I’m keeping it to myself.

What made you keep your surgery a secret?


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megslc18    8

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It is very hard to keep it a secret . Everyone at my job thinks I’m going on vacation for two weeks. I have only told my boyfriend and my sister about my surgery. No one else knows.



I am taking full 6 week leave-figured I would take advantage of the time and really focus on myself (not something I have opportunity to do with my job regularly). I just told work that I have a medical concern I need to deal with. So far no one has pushed and our leave approvals are handled by 3rd party. Mom and sister work in the OR at hospital where I am having it so could not avoid telling them.

Hardest part is dodging questions from extended family at thanksgiving and Christmas on what I am eating (or not eating).


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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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