Dating is hard

[heycrystal2052 430]

Since losing 200 pounds, what I look for in men is completely different. When I first met my boyfriend, in the process of getting to know each other, we spoke about my surgery and fitness. He completely understands and has lost a lot of weight on his own. I looked for someone who was very outgoing, but a homebody at the same time. I love being spontaneous and being out on the go. Heck, since I don't always need to sit down and an catch my breath, being on the go has become my new love. Life is so much more enjoyable now, and sharing plates is a win win!

[CalGuy64 66]

My new girlfriend (if you can call an accomplished 50 year old woman a girl) is a diabetes specialist who sees the results of poor eating on a daily basis. She is very careful about what she eats and understands I can't eat too much either (we seldom eat more than half our food at restaurants). On this issue (and others) we're a good fit.