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Hello everyone,

Please read my story , I do have questions and I hope someone will be able to help me finding the answers.

I am a 35 yr old female. Always struggled with weight. Current weight 97, for my height I should be 55-65 kgs (current BMI 37).

In 2005 I was diagnosed with PCOS and also type 2 diabetes.

Was on metformin tablets until 2011 , when I had my first child.

Post birth I was on insulin at night times and then in Jan 2014, I had the gastric band as I was trying for second baby and also wasn’t having much luck with weight loss.

I went down to 77 kilos and at 79 kilos (my sugar was under control)fell pregnant with my second child in Dec 2015 and post baby birth Aug 2016, my band doesn’t seem to be working.

I am breast feeding and baby is 6.5 months old.

My sugars are out of control (so far no diabetes related complications), I cannot be on a certain tablet since I am breastfeeding , I am on metformin and night time insulin (high dose).

I am always anxious about it all. I feel I am not going to be alive and see my kids grow, every ache and pain makes me think the worse.

So I went and saw my surgeon for a revision and he has suggested mini gastric bypass (MGB).

So I have gone ahead and booked removal of my band on the 10/03 (it’s not working anyway, so it better come out)and MGB 8 weeks later on the 5/05.

I am getting all nervous now, it is such an evasive surgery and I am reading allot on the internet about it all.

I was wondering if there are people who will share their experiences (long term and short term MGB patients).

I had an array of questions for my Surgeon, but I only started to research on the relation between MGB and cancer post my appointment with him.

Does anyone know if :

1. There is a correlation between MGB and cancer? Maybe your Surgeon has answered this for you? I will be asking this question when I see my surgeon post band removal.

2. The bile reflux, is it a normal occurrence? I would imagine this would feel so yuck.

3. How hard is to follow the meal plan post MGB? I have young kids and some of you will know what that is like , HECTIC and I know I need to look after myself ( which I don’t). This question is more so to prepare myself mentally for what’s coming.

4. Do you regret having the MGB?

5. Anyone who is perhaps had MGB for a long time …how are you going? Have you maintained your weight loss?

6. Any other tips and trick for this novice is welcomed.

I thank you for reading my long post and wish everyone good luck in their journeys.

Sam.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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