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Everyone please keep posting as you progress. I need to know everything! I'm watching you all very closely. I'm nervous to say the least.

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WOW - looks like a roll call update is due! "Carrot" I got your private message and will fix it on the next roll call. Everyone else, I'll work on this either Sunday or early next week. This is cool, seeing us united like this, and SO many new names submitted. Deep breath everyone, our surgery is JUST around the corner!

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<p>so monday-the 24-i start my 10 day pre-op liquid diet. i am so excited. i cant believe its so close! finally, a real answer to this problem i have had for my entire life. i cant wait. but i am starting to get nervous. what will i look like thin? what if i still hate me when i am thin? what will my dh think? family? friends? i am not telling anyone, how will i handle the questions? will there be questions? will people even notice? omg, what if nobody notices? what will it be like? will i lose fast? sorry...and these are just a few of whats runnin through my head!</p> <p> </p> <p>i know there are a few others headed for surgery on the 4th. how are you all feeling?</p>

so i think i posted this in the wrong spot maybe? i reposted it on its own thread too.

sorry! just figuring all this out..

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Well I feel like crying a lot. So much excitement, but also the grieving is beginning for all that has been lost: years of experiences and opportunities missed, years of good self esteem, years of contentment, years of putting my energy into positive things instead of dieting, etc. I'm gonna have a good cry and then more forward. That's how I'm feeling!

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I just had my pre-op exam with the surgeon this afternoon. I am all set and all excited! He gave me my post-op instructions and suggestions (need to do a little shopping) and said I don't have to do a pre-op diet, I've already lost the weight needed :rolleyes: As I was leaving he said see you early on the 5th!! I have to be at the hospital at 6:00 am. I just can't wait!!

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Holly- I am feeling exactly the same way... Today I was on my way home from work and just teared up... Thinking about all the lost time... Thinking of the lost years... And also worrying about the surgery. I have a little one and am so worried about something happening to me in surgery. It will be wonderful when we awake from our surgeries and step into our new lives.

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want so bad,

I haven't told anyone in my family ex my husband and my daughter who had her band in aug. she is my support person and can't go on my per op visit to see the doctor and my husband can'd get off from work so I did have to ask my 1 male best friend but I told him I would kill him if he told anyone.

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Hey ya’ll my name is Justin, I’m new to the board. I am set for Oct 4th too! I am on day two of the liquid diet not so bad thus far chewing lots of sugar free gum and drinking a ton of Water. The only time it is difficult is once I’m home. I’m a bit nervous about the post op diet and if any body has a list of foods I would love to take a look. I’m from New Orleans and man do we have some food, the recovery on soft and liquid is giving me nightmares.

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I was supposed to be a 9/25 bandster but my surgery was postponed a week. My doctor had a "family matter" come up that he has to leave town for. I was soooo upset, actually sat in his office and cried. I was thinking "Is this a sign? Am I doing the right thing?" I seriously thought about just bolting out the door and never coming back!

But after I calmed down I realized that 1 more week is nothing compared to the rest of my life!!

Happy to be an October bandster!

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