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Everyone please keep posting as you progress. I need to know everything! I'm watching you all very closely. I'm nervous to say the least.

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WOW - looks like a roll call update is due! "Carrot" I got your private message and will fix it on the next roll call. Everyone else, I'll work on this either Sunday or early next week. This is cool, seeing us united like this, and SO many new names submitted. Deep breath everyone, our surgery is JUST around the corner!

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<p>so monday-the 24-i start my 10 day pre-op liquid diet. i am so excited. i cant believe its so close! finally, a real answer to this problem i have had for my entire life. i cant wait. but i am starting to get nervous. what will i look like thin? what if i still hate me when i am thin? what will my dh think? family? friends? i am not telling anyone, how will i handle the questions? will there be questions? will people even notice? omg, what if nobody notices? what will it be like? will i lose fast? sorry...and these are just a few of whats runnin through my head!</p> <p> </p> <p>i know there are a few others headed for surgery on the 4th. how are you all feeling?</p>

so i think i posted this in the wrong spot maybe? i reposted it on its own thread too.

sorry! just figuring all this out..

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Well I feel like crying a lot. So much excitement, but also the grieving is beginning for all that has been lost: years of experiences and opportunities missed, years of good self esteem, years of contentment, years of putting my energy into positive things instead of dieting, etc. I'm gonna have a good cry and then more forward. That's how I'm feeling!

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I am getting banded on October 31st ...almost too late to join the TENaciousTENS!! So happy I made it.

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I just had my pre-op exam with the surgeon this afternoon. I am all set and all excited! He gave me my post-op instructions and suggestions (need to do a little shopping) and said I don't have to do a pre-op diet, I've already lost the weight needed :rolleyes: As I was leaving he said see you early on the 5th!! I have to be at the hospital at 6:00 am. I just can't wait!!

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Holly- I am feeling exactly the same way... Today I was on my way home from work and just teared up... Thinking about all the lost time... Thinking of the lost years... And also worrying about the surgery. I have a little one and am so worried about something happening to me in surgery. It will be wonderful when we awake from our surgeries and step into our new lives.

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want so bad,

I haven't told anyone in my family ex my husband and my daughter who had her band in aug. she is my support person and can't go on my per op visit to see the doctor and my husband can'd get off from work so I did have to ask my 1 male best friend but I told him I would kill him if he told anyone.

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Hey ya’ll my name is Justin, I’m new to the board. I am set for Oct 4th too! I am on day two of the liquid diet not so bad thus far chewing lots of sugar free gum and drinking a ton of Water. The only time it is difficult is once I’m home. I’m a bit nervous about the post op diet and if any body has a list of foods I would love to take a look. I’m from New Orleans and man do we have some food, the recovery on soft and liquid is giving me nightmares.

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Hi Holly

Please add me to your roll call. My name is Maragaret and I will be banded by Dr. Ortiz on Oct. 17. I have been reading and reading in this forum. I am glad I found you guys.

Margaret

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I was supposed to be a 9/25 bandster but my surgery was postponed a week. My doctor had a "family matter" come up that he has to leave town for. I was soooo upset, actually sat in his office and cried. I was thinking "Is this a sign? Am I doing the right thing?" I seriously thought about just bolting out the door and never coming back!

But after I calmed down I realized that 1 more week is nothing compared to the rest of my life!!

Happy to be an October bandster!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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