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It was this day exactly one year ago 8/31/15, that I laid on the table and woke up as a brand new me. I have no regrets whatsoever and I would choose this again without a doubt. The journey hasn't been easy regardless of what some people think. This journey is 90% mental and only the strong survive. WLS is a tool, not a miracle worker. You will get out of it what you put into it. My SW was 349, today I float around 225. I went from a 28 to a 14. I loved to travel before even though I was embarrassed about my appearance. But NOW!!!! I almost can't stay off the airplane. I no longer have to pretend that my seatbelt is fastened while I ask the attendant for an extender. I have achieved so many milestones that may not mean much to others, but everything to me. I just had an Abdominoplasty and Brachioplasty a week ago, and I'm excited about that. My advise to anyone new at this is to be true to yourself. Do this for you, and be willing to put the work in. Don't go back to your old habits and coping mechanisms. food is not your friend. Discover new hobbies and new ways to Celebrate without food being the main attraction. I discovered cycling and i have met a whole new group of like minded individuals that push me to exercise more and achieve my goals. I didn't even know that I enjoyed riding bikes because it had been over 30 years since I did it. Establish some deal breakers and stick to them. For instance, soda pop is one of mine. I view it as poison and I will never drink it again in life. Only you know your triggers. I have an addiction to chocolate and when I picked that old habit back up post surgery, I knew it was trouble. I now have to. work like a drug addict everyday not to want it. I really wish I would have never invited it back into my life. Now it's my cross that I have to bear. Live your best life today because tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. Eat to live and don't live to eat. Blessings post-260531-14726470790521_thumb.jpg post-260531-14726471640836_thumb.jpg

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Happy Birthday and congratulations for all of your successes! You look gorgeous. Keep up the great work.

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Congrats! You look new, happy and GORGEOUS! Continue doing what you are doing, because it's working and shows.

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Happy birthday and congratulation on your successful weight loss, improved life and great efforts you have made!

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90% mental - WLS is a tool not miracle worker

@@cslove

happy surgiversary

124 lbs gone

(don't look at me, i didn't take them LOL)

new activity you enjoy (bicycle riding)

new friends with same common interests

flying is physically, mentally no more problems

seat belt extender out the window!!

looking, feeling great - doesn't get better than that

dealing with your triggers (addictions) with certain foods is half the battle

look at all those NSV's

you just had two major plastic surgeries!!! wonderful

since you didn't say otherwise - you must be feeling pretty well

normal side effects of some temporary pain, discomfort :(

your transformation pics are great

keep up the good work for the rest of your healthier, happier, longer life

i know you will

kathy

congrats

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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