A little sunshine through all the clouds

[Andrea72 510]

Today makes 12 weeks post op. Hard to believe. As I look back, I see all the ups and downs I've had during that time.

It's easy to feel good about everything on those "high" days, but on those lows? It's really hard not to focus on anything, but the negative. I found this forum in hopes of helping me reach my goal, but I have taken away so much more.

I for one do not have a support system I can rely on, so I am thankful for all of you.

There are so many of you that have shown me that even though life can be pretty crappy, there is always something to be thankful for.

More importantly, a few of you have caused me to laugh, when all I wanted to do was cry. And one very kind person that through our talks, I ended up learning more about myself that I either refused to see, or just didn't want to acknowledge. If that's all I take away from this process, I will be forever grateful.

Anyway I say all that for this.....the numbers on the scale have once again stopped. I've been driving myself crazy about it cause all I could focus on was those stupid numbers.

If it wasn't for what I've learned on here "to look for the good" I totally would not have even realized I grabbed a pair of jeans 4 sizes smaller than what I've been wearing and.....THEY FIT!!!! Wasn't until I looked in the mirror at work that I saw they aren't my usual "go to's."

So, thank you to all of you that have been there as mentors, comedians, my reality at times, and more importantly friends.

Dang I look good, and this is only the beginning!!

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[Christinamo7 4,042]

hey that's a nice NSV! you're doing really well.

[Valentina 2,642]

Damn, girl! You DO look good!

I, too have no support system at home. BP has been my support for 5 yrs now.

Some days are still dark, but those days are fewer and a wee bit brighter. I can't ask for more.

Hoping your journey remains mostly sunny with little chance of rain!

[Andrea72 510]

Thank you, ladies!!

Today is one day I don't mind being surrounded by mirrors. Lol

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[KristenLe 5,980]

@@Andrea72 To think - in just 12 weeks you are a different person - inside and out!!! Congrats!!! You do look damn good!!!

[Montana Gal 448]

You look wonderful!

[MrsSugarbabe 727]

Awesome!!! Congratulations!! A wonderful NSV!!!

[Andrea72 510]

Thank you, ladies!!!

@@KristenLe

Maybe one day soon I'll get complimented on my arse instead of "you can really see it in your face".

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[KindaFamiliar 3,867]

You're welcome!!!

[Andrea72 510]

All together now.....

GOOD MORNING, @@KindaFamiliar!!!

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[KindaFamiliar 3,867]

Hahaha...

And good morning to you @@Andrea72

[tavilez12 8]

Today makes 12 weeks post op. Hard to believe. As I look back, I see all the ups and downs I've had during that time.

It's easy to feel good about everything on those "high" days, but on those lows? It's really hard not to focus on anything, but the negative. I found this forum in hopes of helping me reach my goal, but I have taken away so much more.

I for one do not have a support system I can rely on, so I am thankful for all of you.

There are so many of you that have shown me that even though life can be pretty crappy, there is always something to be thankful for.

More importantly, a few of you have caused me to laugh, when all I wanted to do was cry. And one very kind person that through our talks, I ended up learning more about myself that I either refused to see, or just didn't want to acknowledge. If that's all I take away from this process, I will be forever grateful.

Anyway I say all that for this.....the numbers on the scale have once again stopped. I've been driving myself crazy about it cause all I could focus on was those stupid numbers.

If it wasn't for what I've learned on here "to look for the good" I totally would not have even realized I grabbed a pair of jeans 4 sizes smaller than what I've been wearing and.....THEY FIT!!!! Wasn't until I looked in the mirror at work that I saw they aren't my usual "go to's."

So, thank you to all of you that have been there as mentors, comedians, my reality at times, and more importantly friends.

Dang I look good, and this is only the beginning!!

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Go girl!!! Rocking then jeans!

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[Andrea72 510]

Thank you @@tavilez12

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