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I tried starting pre-op early and it just didn't work...I constantly fell off the wagon...I'm the kind of person that does best when there are consequeneces....There was no price to pay if I cheated starting early. If I fall of the wagon during the "official" pre-op I won't get surgery. That's what will keep me motivated and on plan! Again, another really good reason for the band for me...If I eat too much the consequence will be embarrasing pain...

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So far so good. Having the flu I think is actually helping. I can't really taste anything so the temptation to force something down is greatly diminished. Maybe if I'm lucky, it will last for 3 more days until the worst of the real hunger is gone:)

I haven't been sick for about five years, and I'm a firm believer in all things happening for a reason, so I'm trying to embrace this. Better now than immediately afer surgery anyway.

Of course I had the flu yesterday and I still managed to worry down a leftover turkey sandwich at 10:30 last night because I wanted to have my last hurrah. So silly. But today, the switch has turned off and it's all good.

On to better things!!!

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Oh Carol.....

I can relate so well!!

I tried to experiment with a pre op prior to the actual.... NO LUCK!!!

I started official pre op on Wed. (the day before Turkey Day) so far so good.... We will see!!!

Hang in there.... I keep taking things an hour at a time!!

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New Blue

Glad things went okay today!!! I think the first day was the biggest challenge for me!!! Keep posting... I like to hear how everyone is doing with this. It helps, especially when we are all at the same stage!

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Newblue, I noticed we have the same surgery date. I started my pre-op diet today. I'm praying that it gets easier, lol all i have thought about all day is food. 13 days till surgery...

Meghan

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lol I am having a party the weekend before I go on the liquid diet. All my friends are making their favorite dish. and we are watching movies. I figure I can get it all out of the way then. I have bought all my Protein Powder and working on buying all the other stuff I need.

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hello all,

i have finished my appointments with the nutritionist today and also was cleared by the cardiologist. 1 more appointment with my pcp on tues . it has been a long 6 months of all these doctors appointments. but it will be worth it when i get that phone call from the insurance co that i am approved. keeping my fingers crossed. i joined a gym today with my husband. i figured i would get started with that too. how is everyone else doing??

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OK I am glad to hear that others can't quite stick to the pre-pre-op diet. I start my pre-op two week liquid diet on December second so I decided to do a low-cal diet for a week before to ease into the starvation thing. I have only fell off the wagon a couple of times but am getting nervous about staying on the liquid diet with parties and such. I was thinking today of inviting a friend over for dinner for her birthday this month and even bought a great bottle of wine before I remembered oh yeah I can't eat anything (or drink!!!!:faint:). I am seriously beginning to wonder how this will effect our social life since I love to cook and most family get-togethers are at our house. :) Also - I want to punch my obnoxious brother-inlaw. His daughter (my niece) just had the band done in October and every time he sees me he says things like enjoy that pizza because you won't be eating that again or you know you can't drink beer because it is carbonated. I think after I lose my weight and get in shape I will challenge him to a race or something I am sure I could take him since the only heavy lifting he does is a twelve pack of Coors!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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