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I really don't understand why y'all have to keep tasting while you're cooking. Is that really necessary to produce a good dish?

Assuming that you're lifelong cooks / chefs and that you've been cooking some of the same dishes for so long, don't you know what the ingredients and amounts are? If not, couldn't you figure that out?

I also don't understand how MFP could tell you with any accuracy what a "taste" of anything is. Surely, "tastes" range from licks to tablespoons. ???

Inquiring minds want to know. ;)

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I dip my finger in a sauce and I eat 1 bite of macaroni. I want to make sure it tastes good and/or it's done . I don't do measurements, just by eye only. I track it using the least amount that is listed or whatever is closest just so I'm keeping track. It's just what I do because I want to be accountable

I don't consider it a habit that is hard to break, I was just replying to someone that does

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@@VSGAnn2014 for me it is because I use a lot of ingredients that can vary - fresh herbs and home grown tomatoes just as an example rather than cans of stuff and dried ingredients.

but I don't really worry about tasting things while I eat. if I taste, I eat less when I sit down, or just sit and enjoy company.

I don't track my food every day, and really I do a lot of batch cooking on the weekend, so I'm not tasting all the time either.

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Similar to above, I've never been much of a recipe follower...I don't like other people 'telling me what to do', so to speak. If I turn out a good dish, I want full credit!

There are a few things I've made that have turned out and gone over so well that I've taken the time to develop an actual recipe so I remember how I did it.

For the most part, however, cooking is one big experiment, and I do need to taste to be sure it's palatable. I may not be so concerned if I hadn't had more than a few 'down the disposal where's the takeout menu' nights...

But I have. So I am.

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I really don't understand why y'all have to keep tasting while you're cooking. Is that really necessary to produce a good dish?

Assuming that you're lifelong cooks / chefs and that you've been cooking some of the same dishes for so long, don't you know what the ingredients and amounts are? If not, couldn't you figure that out?

I also don't understand how MFP could tell you with any accuracy what a "taste" of anything is. Surely, "tastes" range from licks to tablespoons. ???

Inquiring minds want to know. ;)

It's about preparing the very best food for my family within my ability to do so. I use only fresh herbs, so the taste varies each time. When preparing an appetizer, salad, Soup course, Protein, starch, veggies, cheese course and then dessert, I am now using a baby spoon to taste each course.

By the time the meal is ready to be presented to the table, I am done. I can eat no more.

I guess I will be content with my family enjoying my food at a formally set table (learning opp for the grandsons) and conversing with me.

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-and no, this is not every night. This is Sundays, Wednesdays and special occasions.

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My biggest issue is still eating too fast. Portion Control is being strictly maintained by my sleeve, and I have learned to read the signs, but when you eat too fast, the signs come too late.... I have tried putting 20-30 seconds between my bites with the hope that I can develop the habit, but it only works when I do it consciously - despite months of effort, the habit hasn't stuck. When I don't pay attention, I wolf down food.

Another major issue is lack of motivation to exercise. I did it consistently for months, but then dropped off and the weight kept coming off, so the incentive fell away. I am hoping that now that I am reaching maintenance, I can find the motivation again.

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Night eating is still hard for me to let go of some days - and one nibble SO easily turns into a whole lot more. Now I literally say it out loud to myself as I finish eating for the day; "I'm enjoying my last bite of food tonight, and now I'm not eating anything else!" Sometimes I have to repeat it if I need to go back into the kitchen to make my lunch, lol!

Also, I miss the pleasure of having a good single malt scotch on a weekly basis - used to be a really nice pleasure. Now I have it maybe quarterly if that. It's not like I miss the booze really (and it gives me no ill affects in small doses) but I know if I have it more often one will turn into two, and with two my well-thought-out eating plan seems to float out the window. sigh.

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I have not had my surgery yet but I'm already weaning myself from Diet Coke and it's HARD!!! Lol after the gym is the hardest bc I want a ice cold Diet Coke or on a hot day.... Lol

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To wean myself off of the Diet Coke habit, I switched to iced tea (I drink mine plain, no sweeteners, no lemons, nada) for a week until I no longer had the cravings for Diet Coke. This also helped with the caffeine withdrawal headaches. After a week, I was able to go to just plain Water. I've done this twice with January 2016 being my 2nd (and last) time of beating this addiction.

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I'm still pre-op but I think the hardest habits to break will be like others before me, drinking while eating. It's something I not only enjoy but feel is necessary. The other one is going to be the chugging of Water. I'm a chugger as well and drink a gallon of Water a day currently.

We'll just have to see how things go post-op. If these are my biggest habits to break then I'll consider it a win/win. :)

ETA: I just had lunch and think the bigger challenge won't be drinking while eating. It's the waiting before and after until I can drink that will be. :angry:

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Drinking with meals so far

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I already know... mine is gonna be popcorn - I'm a popcornaholic. I seriouly am - I can withstand almost everything else turn it down and ignore it... but popcorn... I'll just have to make sure that work extra hard to resist that urge after my surgery.

I can't wait! I'm sooo excited that I finally got my date and start this part of the journey!

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I already know... mine is gonna be popcorn - I'm a popcornaholic. I seriouly am - I can withstand almost everything else turn it down and ignore it... but popcorn... I'll just have to make sure that work extra hard to resist that urge after my surgery.

I can't wait! I'm sooo excited that I finally got my date and start this part of the journey!

While you may need to give it up for a while you may not have to forever. This is just me but I am almost 8 months out and I eat 1-2 measured cups of smart life light popcorn everyday. I lose pretty consistently and for me it's not a slider food, I do eat a bit of cheese for Protein with it because I never eat anything unless I have Protein. I have lost 115lbs so far.

Now I will say if having a bit of popcorn for you opens the door to overindulge then it's probably best to stay away from it. For me I am good with a measured out bit to satisfy that crunchy desire.

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I'm hoping that if i measure it out - and my hand hits bottom with nothing to come up that I will NOT get up and go get more. We'll see. I'm into the sweet types or hot types - just everything in between, I can do naked with minimal salt even. I start my 2 week pre-op next tuesday... this is gonna be a fun ride :D and honestly I really am looking forward to it even with all the ups and downs I know I'll have.

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@@reree6898 almost 8 mths and 115 lbs is amazing-good job! I sure am hoping I have those kind of results!

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