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Battling wanting to binge eat because of my emotions.. It is so hard for me and I know I cant. Has anyone dealt with this and overcame it? Im praying that i will be able to. Im a month out

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maybe replace with a different behavior?

I tend to binge clean. when I am super stressed or upset I could stay up all night cleaning a room.

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Are you seeing a counselor or therapist? Have you considered attending a 12-step recovery group like OA (OA.org)?

When you get the urge to binge, look for something to do with your hands that will keep away from the food.

Clean the toilet.

Take a bath or shower.

Take a walk.

Call a friend.

Write in a journal.

Do needlework, knit, or crochet.

Paint.

Garden.

Mop the floor.

Have a good cry.

Get a massage.

Paint your nails.

Prayer.

Meditation.

Go to a support group meeting.

Go to Church.

Take a class.

Go to the gym.

You can find help. You did the right thing by asking for help.

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maybe replace with a different behavior?

I tend to binge clean. when I am super stressed or upset I could stay up all night cleaning a room.

You can always tell how pissed or stressed I am by how clean my bathrooms are. Instant gratification.

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I agree with the others ... find a replacement outlet for the emotions. Just following my surgery I went through a pretty rough patch with family illness and a (separate) death in the family. My normal go-to would have been food. However, someone here recommended that I find some other way to ease the emotion and I started to walk more and more. It was a GREAT outlet for me! I would put in my earphones and just go until I either physically couldn't (shorter distances closer to my surgery) or else I felt the weight start to lift off of me.

Ultimately, the fear of weight gain or even making myself sick from eating too much after my new sleeve was enough to help me to re-focus on something other than food.< /p>

Best of luck to you!

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I found keeping my hands busy helps. I took up crocheting.

One night I finished a whole baby afghan for one of my daughter's friends.

__kept my hands busy, my mouth shut and made a lovely gift .

I also tried romance novels-----too stressful! :)

Do you have a therapist? If not, I think getting one would be a huge benefit for you.

Keep posting. That, too will help.

Prayers going up...​

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I was a binge eater pre-op. I really struggled with ot being able to binge for a while, but I think my brain finally caught on to the limitations of my stomach around 4 months post-op. I never really replaced my binge eating with anything else. But I did find that exercising regularly really helped mitigate stress and control my emotions.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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