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I was just banded on 8/3 and I researched very, very well in preparation. The one thing I did not see anything about and would have been helpful to know is that it can be hard to wear your normal clothes after surgery. It was easy to wear comfortable stretchy clothes over the weekend, but I went back to work on Monday and I have had a problem all week with wearing something that does not irritate my incisions. I also had a little swelling around the port site. I am sitting here right now with my pants unbuttoned and unzipped for comfort. This is especially true since my clothes were a little tight to begin with and somtimes pushes the fat up when I put them on (you know that innertube look I'm talking about) Had I known I would have invested in something like summer dresses or stretchy pants for the first couple of weeks. Other than that things have been great and this borad was VERY helpful in preparing me.

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I was just banded on 8/3 and I researched very, very well in preparation. The one thing I did not see anything about and would have been helpful to know is that it can be hard to wear your normal clothes after surgery. It was easy to wear comfortable stretchy clothes over the weekend, but I went back to work on Monday and I have had a problem all week with wearing something that does not irritate my incisions.

If you've ever had surgery, this is a given. The week before surgery I went out and got some "fat pants" (stretchy black leggings I could wear to the hospital and back and also for the first week at work). I could not wear a bra because of potential irritation in the port area, so I just wore things with jackets. Probably by the 10th day or so after surgery I was able to wear all my other clothes without a problem.

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I don't think this is a "given" after surgery. In fact I had asked the nurse about what i could wear and she told me I wouldn't have to worry about it. Also, depending on where your incisions are the bra may not be an issue. I have been fine with my regular underwires and even wore one home after surgery. I just think others should be aware so they don't end up with their pants undone like me.

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Thanks for warning us, My surgery is most likely some months away but I appreciate anything and everything anyone can tell me to help me be prepared.

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I think that everyone is different. It depends on where your surgeon puts your incensions. I had absolutely no problem with pants because I have no incensions near my waist. I did, however, have a problem with a bra for a couple of days because that is where my port incension is located. It is good to go to the hospital with lose fitting, stretchy clothes because you never know how you are going to be.

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You can wear a girdle for the time being to keep things from rubbing on it. It is annoying, but it doesn't last for very long :tea:

I wore stretchy pants and kept them below all of my incisions, and wore baggy shirts to hide my belly.

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I never had any issues with wearing normal clothes. I was banded on a Monday and went back to work the next monday wearing normal work clothes. It may just depend on the person.

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I was banded on a Tuesday night and wore sweats home from the hospital the next day, with my bra. Back to work on Monday and never had a problem. I do think, however, I was told to watch what clothes I wore as well as having easy shoes as it was hard to tie the left one!! It seems it just depends on where the incisions are and all that.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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