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Hi , everyone . I love reading all this posts and getting informed on WLS since i am starting My journey. I have dealt with obesity all my life .But During the last 4-5 years i had children and My Weight became worst .. I am 5 ft tall and weight at approx. 220-240 pounds. My fathers side of the family are all obese 300+ pound . I am so tired of been tired because of my weight .. I cant even enjoy my kids because my ankles would hurt so bad plus Im always tired.. after 6 Months of thinking about it i decided enough was enough and called the bariatric center in my state (rhode island) .On feb 10th i have to attend a seminar and than i could make an appt with my surgeon ..i have all type of mix emotions but im mostly excited . I just want to be happy and healthy so that i could see my babies grow :-)

Can you guys share your stories ? What is your goal ? In what stage of the process are you ? . :-)

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I am seeing my surgeon for the first time tomorrow! I've been hanging right around 309 for the last 10 years and I am tired! My PCP gave me this referral so I'm hoping that helps me move right along with the process. The part that scares me the most is the insurance possibly saying no.....

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I'm having my appointment tomorrow and super excited and ready to find out what I have 2 do to get closer to my new beginning and start on my lifestyle changes.... I've been struggling after having my two beautiful kids! And ready for a change.... I've tried everything and no luck after researching everything I think this will be perfect for me.

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Hi there! I'm in the beginning stages of the process too. I have my first class on Thursday. My surgeon sent out a packet of paperwork today. When I fill that out and fax it back in then they will schedule my consultation. I've already checked with my insurance (the surgeons office has also verified) and they will cover the surgery and they do not require any supervised diet or anything before besides proof from the surgeon that I'm morbidly obese. I'm hoping to have a surgery date in late March or early April!

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Thank you :-)

I'm hopeful that Cigna will cover. I have heard both sides from different people so who knows....I can't find anything online about which plans accept and which ones don't

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I googled it, it says that certain plans cover it. One lady at my work got the gastric bypass done And she was self pay. She said they wouldn't cover it, but I'm more inclined to think that she didn't want to go through the motions....so I am hoping I can get covered if I do everything to the letter.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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