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I'm several months in on the presurgery visits. All the medical stuff has checked out. I'm not worried about the anesthesia because I just had general anesthesia twice in one day for emergency gall bladder removal and a follow up surgery for complications. I am struggling to get the 50 gram Protein in and keeping the carbs under 100, though I have managed to lose 30 pounds so far. I've always been a big volume eater more than a junk food eater, which is why I was originally thinking of the sleeve.

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Keep researching. Read all the threads here you can get through.

There are so many angles to this.

Remember -- there aren't many (any?) people here who opted to lose weight without WLS. Pretty much everyone here has been a WLS patient.

My own story is I had VSG surgery at age 68. I've lost 100 pounds and am maintaining astonishingly well (at 17 months post-op). Lost from 235 pounds to 135 pounds. No complications at all, and I feel great and look great.

I had GERD pre-op and took Ranitidine for it. For the 4 months post-op my surgeon had me on a PPI (Protonix). Then I went back to Ranitidine and have been doing well on it. Of course, I follow the usual GERD eating instructions -- don't eat for 2 hours before bedtime, minimize the GERD-causing foods at night (tomato sauces, especially), etc. But I can't predict for anyone else what their GERD reaction to VSG will be.

Good luck to you in your decision and your actions thereafter.

P.S. I guess you know that if you don't have WLS and lose weight "conventionally," your long-term odds of keeping off most of the weight you lose are only 2%. Those are some tough numbers. Ugh. But WLS's long-term success odds are much better than that -- about 50% long-term success odds. That's pretty much why most of us decided to go the WLS route.

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You gotta go for what you are comfortable .These are major operations.

Cut 85% of your stomach out or reroute your insides...these are extreme measures and you have to live with your decision .So be sure WLS is for you.

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I had mild GERD controlled with Nexium prior to surgery. I had the sleeve and hiatal hernia repair. I was on Nexium for the 3 months after surgery and have had zero issues with reflux or heartburn. Talk to your surgeon and get the upper GI. If you have a hernia that may be causing or contributing to the GERD. Being overweight was also contributing to the GERD. Get rid of both of those contributors and no more GERD.

I frequently eat late and right before bed. My only concession is that the head of my bed is still raised. I also drink virtually no caffeine now and before surgery I used to drink a large unsweetened McDonald's iced tea, plus 2 diet Dr Pepper bottles plus another 16-20 ounces of iced tea a day. At most I will have a watered down child's sized iced tea a couple of times a week when I go out.

Check with a surgeon and see what options they think are good for you. Another one that isn't as widely available is a duodenal switch (DS).

I am like many other posters here. I have lost 60 pounds here, 80 pounds there, 40 pounds and gained it all back. I have found after the sleeve I am not hungry all the time, I get full quickly and it is easier to stay on track.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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