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14 days out for my sleeve. One last PCP visit for blood work/chest xrays/poking and prodding. Saw the surgeon monday, and the anesthesiologist tuesday. anesthesia lady gave me a lot of information. What to expect right before surgery, in the room, how the anesthesia process would work, recovery, first hours post op. Gave me the living will paperwork if I want to fill it out. Feel very comfy with the place, procedure, surgeon, and myself doing fine with it.

Now that's an interesting question to me. I had a heart attack at 19. (weird narrow artery that sort of shed it's skin, not the classic veins filled with crisco symptoms) The omg I'm gonna fall over and die paranoia from that has helped get me in the shape I am now. I did it by myself, but I leaned on that crutch. So I'm probably at juuuuust a tad higher risk than most people.

So.... to set one up or not. I know I don't want to come out with severe brain trauma. But living is good and I want you to get the jumper cables if I develop a miss halfway through.

Opinions?

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We are never guaranteed another minute in this life. Just the same as you have home, auto, and health insurance, the living will is "what if I am not able to communicate my needs" insurance.

One of the sayings I picked up from my grandma was "It is better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it." Not only have I established a Living Will, but I also have an appointed Medical Power of Attorney, Financial Power of Attorney, and Final Will and Testament.

In a gesture to pay it forward for all the benefits I have received from medical research, I have left written instructions to complete arrangements I have already contracted to donate my earthly container to medical science.

Although I got sleeved to extend my years and improve my quality of life, still there is no guarantee. So, I think it is a good idea and I hope you never need it for decades to come.

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I too had a heart attack at a young age due to a freak thing with my artery, and since I've had no complications since the stenting they did, I am like you...just barely at a higher risk. I will probably do one, though.

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Heh do you also get tired of the techs running the EKG freaking out, then you having to explain the whole dang thing..

That's my conundrum. I know I may pop off. Snuff it. Pine for the fjords. That's acceptable. Scary and worrying, but acceptable.

It's the thought of having no oxy to the grey matter for an extended period of time and coming out with decreased mental capacity, or being hooked to 45 machines to keep my body alive.

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      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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