I hope you don't end up looking gaunt...

[VSGAnn2014 12,992]

Well, for the record, I don't look gaunt.

Or gray.

I'm gorgeous and blonde.

[Sharon1964 2,530]

Sometimes people do look gaunt. I don't think he was being negative I think he was just stating an observation that he noticed. That's the way I took anyway.

The tone of his voice and the look on his face definitely conveyed negativity.

And the fact that he didn't call me for our lunch date kinda confirms it.

It's okay though, I have nothing invested in this guy. His loss.

[CowgirlJane 14,259]

I am 51...look at my before and afters. ..no gaunt girl here!

I am sorry I can't spin this positive. It's like somebody has their 40 th birthday and you say "sure hope you don't get bald and fat"

[Sharon1964 2,530]

I am 51...look at my before and afters. ..no gaunt girl here!

I am sorry I can't spin this positive. It's like somebody has their 40 th birthday and you say "sure hope you don't get bald and fat"

You look awesome!

[Pinkgirl1234 761]

He is an as*****le.No time for losers...next!

...and next time no need to reveal you had WLS.This is too much needless info for someone you just met.You simply say"I don't eat sushi...simple as that.Tell us not someone you just met.

[careya123 260]

As an engineer-type myself, let me apologize for him. We are sorry. We have no social skills. We know this. lol

[4MRB4PHOTO 3,899]

With that remark he wasn't being a very "civil" engineer.

I don't think he was trying to insult you. It is probably that his mouth was in drive but he was grinding his brain gears.

Too bad for him, you probably look like a different 5 letter word starting with "G" and ending with "T"...GREAT!.

[fly-high 84]

ANYONE who does not get enough daily [Protein and Water will start to look gaunt - sickly, WLS or not.

5 years since surgery, and no one ever knew...never told anyone,\

My weight loss is old news, not many people remember when I was an out of shape fatty.

I too had to stop eating certain foods, but I told people I am changing my ways and starting to eat healthy....so nothing white, and that includes rice.

Im with you, its no bodies business. I never thought about that 5 years down the line people will have forgotten what i looked like prior, lol....