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I've been trying to lose weight to be healthier for around 9 years, I've never been able to get past 250 currently I'm sitting at 302 so my BMI right now is 53 I think. I've tried just about everything but late last year I decided that because I have a insurance that will cover WLS I'm going to do it this year. UHC required that I call and enroll with OptumHealth before the services relating to it would be covered so I took my first step and did that last week. I'm scheduled to speak to my RN Case manager for the first time tomorrow, shes who will help guide me through the process.

Since I've been overweight for almost all of my adult life I've more than once researched the different kinds of WLS and when I did my recent research its seems to me the sleeve is the surgery that might be best for me. Of course I'll discus it with medical professionals and all that and make the final decision from there.

I found this site while I was googling the processes involved in getting WLS so I'm glad to have it as a place of support. I just really am curious as to what to expect during this process since I've never had a insurance that would pay for it before I've never started the process before! I know there is a psych eval and the 6 month pre-op diet that is required before they will pay for the surgery but I have no clue what to expect from them. Am I going to fail a psych eval because I'm already diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder that I control with medication or is this more of a I am of sound mind and can make the decision to have this life altering surgery?

UHC also requires I go to a center of excellence which is totally fine since there are a few in Indiana and thankfully two of them are in Carmel where I work (I drive a long way to work every day!) so I can do DR visits and what not before work or during lunch since my job is pretty flexible with medical appointments. I'm however not sure how to choose between St Vincents and IU Health or where I might find information on which of the surgeons I'd want to choose specifically! I'm going to ask the RN I talk to tomorrow of course but its great to hear personal experiences to help figure it all out.

I'm hoping everything goes smoothly with the process I really just want to be healthy. Not only just for myself but I want to enjoy a long life with my husband and two daughters without being held back by obesity.

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Good luck with everything, it sounds like you have a great start! I'm BCBS and my insurance doesn't require anything except a BMI of 40 or higher. I just started my process a month ago and I'm currently waiting for my healthplan to authorize me.

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From what I understand is the requirements are actually coming from my employer rather than the insurance itself but perhaps I'm misunderstanding it.

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Not sure yet! I've looked at Dr's a little bit but haven't made any decisions yet. Love meeting Indiana people! Keep me updated on your experience with them!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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