My name is Kelly, I am 42, live in WI and had bypass surgery in April 2015. I am not struggling with eating or losing but I am struggling emotionally. I feel alone and just wish someone understood what this journey is like. anyone out there feel like this?

Yes, I understand. I feel the same way sometimes. Like I'm just separated from other people. This is a huge life change, as big as getting married or having children. It would be crazy if we didn't have some strong, conflicting emotions about it and during it. People here care. Feel free to PM me if you'd like.