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When I first started the journey to a new healthier me my nut ask me what were some of my goals. My goals??? Ok well... I want to be able to tie my shoes. She just kind of looked at me all funny. So I explain and shoe her my shoes. They were tied (of course, I know how to tie my shoes) but the were tied to the side. I could not and would not bend over my big belly to tie my shoes cause it would get smashed and make it hard to breath so I would hike my foot up on my leg and tie it to the side. My surgery was on the 22nd of June I have lost 70 pounds and to be honest I don't see that big of diff when I look in the mirror, and I am already forgetting all the things I use to not be able to do. This morning I was tying my brand new knee high boots ( would have not even looked at 70 pounds ago) that I just got to go with my brand new size 12 skinny jeans and I realize I am tying my shoe!!!!!!! The skinny jeans being a 12 made me happy cause I started in a 22 but I didn't even get how much I have really lost until I noticed I could tie my shoe the correct way. Its funny how fast I forgot my little goals and started to just care about the looks of things. The being able to do simple tasks like tie your shoes or not be scared to death with the hostess tells you they only have a booth available and you are worried you wont fit. These are the things that make it all worth while. The reasons that even though I would love to have soda right now I am happy never drinking it again. I why when everyone else orders the fried foods I am eating healthy. These are the reasons I had this surgery. Not to see the thinner prettier me in the mirror (although that's awesome too).

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Yes it's the little things sometimes that suddenly make us thing wowed! Well done on your weight loss!

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I am sincerely happy for you! I'm down almost 50 pds from my HW and down almost 2 full sizes from a 26/28 to almost a 24. I just noticed the sides of my bras don't roll up or squish together anymore. It's a beautiful, fulfilling moment and one of many to come. Congratulations!

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Awesome! I had the same feeling of joy when I could put my socks on without contorting my body LOL!

-RC-

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Well done, Candi.

Very well done.

Due to back problems I was also unable to get my own socks and shoes on for a good part of this past year.

Crazy.......I'll never take such daily tasks for granted ever again.

Losing the weight is a real blessing in many ways.

Eating healthy like you are doing is another blessing. Think about how much better our heart and other other organs now are. Sure feels good.

Keep on doing great. Post up some progress pics, too. They can really help motivate folks !!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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