Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

My wife is 10 months post op surgery and she has absolutely no energy, she is getting a Vitamin B12 shot every two weeks, all of her blood test came back great even though she is not taking any Vitamins, the only thing that was low was her Vitamin D, my theory is she is not eating enough Protein in a day, she normally eats nothing until dinner then dinner is next to nothing, she has lost 175 pounds from 353 to 181. Doing great in that scheme of things, light to no exercise. I'm guessing if she ate more during the day, did at least 15 mins of exercise and took a vitamin D pill it may help?? Any other suggestions? Thanks!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Getting enough calories and Protein, as well as enough Water, are all extremely important. It's great that she's lost so much weight but it sounds like she may be hurting her body a little in the process. Also, going a long time without eating is TERRIBLE for you and for your metabolism. Make her take care of herself! :P

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes, you are likely right that she is not getting enough at this point. By the way, not eating until dinner time is not following the plan and in the long run it will hurt her health. This messes up our metabolism that we worked so hard to correct.

She should be eating at least 3 meals a day, getting 1 gram of Protein for every inch she is tall and 48 to 64 ounces of Water.

Her meals should be balanced but Protein heavy.

I am shocked that her labs have come back normal given your description of how she has been eating. Have you personally seen her test results?

She needs a nutritionist now.

Good luck to you and if there is anything you need please feel free to reach out.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My prescribed Vitamin B 12 doesn't do anything my energy. But I'm pre op so hopefully that will change. That's a lot of weight to drop in 10 months too. I hope she feels better.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Low Vitamin D can cause low energy but certainly lack of food would as well. Why us she not eating all day until dinner? That is just a vicious cycle Thatcher have all lived thru and screws with metabolism not to mention health. Did she tell the Dr how much Protein she is (or in this case is not) getting? With that much loss that quick and little to no protein and no exercise, she is losing muscle mass and can eventually lead to her being much more weak and I'll than she realizes. Is she going to therapy? If not I strongly recommend seeing an eating disorder specialist.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

She definitely needs to eat more not getting enough Protein is going to have issues after a while when I wasn't getting enough protein in the back of my legs went numb and I had some pretty major Vitamin deficiencies she needs to put calories and protein right away and speak to her doctor about these issues. A lack of B Vitamins can make one very very tired

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Whenever she eats early in the morning she gets sick.... she is a nurse so by the time she gets to work she doesn't have time to eat lunch... so she is left waiting until she gets home to eat. She has a very hard time swallowing large pills and most Multivitamins are huge. All this adds to her vicious cycle of problems.... thanks so much for all of your responses! She is reading all of them and I'm sure we will figure something out with help of these comments.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well if she is a nurse, she has to have some brains. She needs to use them. There are liquid Vitamins, Patches and chewable vitamins. I can not eat in the morning, but I drink a Protein shake. She can take a cheese stick and meat for lunch. She must of snacked at her nursing job when she was overweight. I am sure she must get a lunch. I think she is so eager to lose weight she is starving herself.

My brother had congestive heart failure and diabetes and weighed about 400 pounds. Now he is 140. He looks like he is 90 years old. He acts like he is 90. He was like your wife, he did not eat Breakfast, and only one meal a day. Well, 3 years post op he is so weak, he can not work on his car, he can not do home projects. He can not turn a wrench. He did it his way, he is skinny and too weak to do anything. He will not listen to anyone.

Your wife knows the consequences of not taking medicine or Vitamins. She saw the movies or read the material. She is choosing to self destruct. If she doesn't get enough Protein, her muscles (heart) and brain will suffer.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My wife is 10 months post op surgery and she has absolutely no energy, she is getting a Vitamin B12 shot every two weeks, all of her blood test came back great even though she is not taking any Vitamins, the only thing that was low was her Vitamin D, my theory is she is not eating enough Protein in a day, she normally eats nothing until dinner then dinner is next to nothing, she has lost 175 pounds from 353 to 181. Doing great in that scheme of things, light to no exercise. I'm guessing if she ate more during the day, did at least 15 mins of exercise and took a vitamin D pill it may help?? Any other suggestions? Thanks!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was the same way to until I started taking liquid Geritol. Terrible taste but made me feel better.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KimBaxleyWilson

      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • bellaamey

      https://alluniqueguide.com/java-burn-coffee-reviews/
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×