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kelseynicole20

By kelseynicole20, in Singles Forum

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Daveo    485

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I have a friend on here that is dating a woman who had WLS and they are finding a lot in common. It might be a good idea.

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gowalking    10,790

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I dated a guy who also had WLS. It made the eating part easier but my current beau is just a 'naormal' eater and we regularly share when we eat out because truth is, portions are way too big. It really depends on the guy. If he's one of the good ones, it won't matter.

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kelseynicole20    10

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I have a friend on here that is dating a woman who had WLS and they are finding a lot in common. It might be a good idea.

Yeah I want to try it out. It's like more of an understanding between each other because we know how hard it is for everything.

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kelseynicole20    10

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I dated a guy who also had WLS. It made the eating part easier but my current beau is just a 'naormal' eater and we regularly share when we eat out because truth is, portions are way too big. It really depends on the guy. If he's one of the good ones, it won't matter.

Hahaha yeah, I got out of a relationship with a guy that I was dating before my surgery and then dating after and it seems like he was disinterested and he always told me I was getting too skinny. And he never understood what I was going through with anything nor did he make changes with me or for me. We ate out too often and he never picked the best places. I feel like having this on common would be such special bond and we could support each other with all of the life changes.

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Daveo    485

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@@kelseynicole20 and cheaper too if you share the same foods when dining out! haha

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I think its a good idea.. I guess alot go through this process alone to have someone that really understands and helps as well as you help them. I think builds a really strong bond...

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kelseynicole20    10

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I think its a good idea.. I guess alot go through this process alone to have someone that really understands and helps as well as you help them. I think builds a really strong bond...

It really does, I really want to find someone who has had the surgery.. Wish there was some kind of dating site for WLS ????

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Fame    53

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Yeah.. a dating site would be nice!

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OKCPirate    5,323

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@@kelseynicole20 - With whole internet world strange niche perversions keep popping up, there probably are people who really like loose skin...so if anyone is "really out there" and edgy, I'd be curious to see if there is a market. ;-) sort of.

The problem with dating sites is numbers and traffic. It takes a big bunch of people to make it viable. Maybe personal ads on this site might be a better way to go. I'd start, but I'm starting to get serious about someone at the moment.

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Daveo    485

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@@OKCPirate hopefully there will not be crazies on that site that walk out on you! lol loved reading your horror story!

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OKCPirate    5,323

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@@Daveo - Dude, do the math, half of the population is below average. That's why this a numbers game. It takes on average for me:

15 emails before I get a response

1 of 5 of those who I am in email communication with result in a coffee date

2 of those 5 get a real date

so I've gone out on 20 real dates over the last three months, and finally found two I was very serious about...one I had to say no to, but one I'm now getting VERY serious about.

See what I mean, its a numbers game?

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