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Hello! Female in the KC area looking for someone to partner with in this journey. I'm having my sleeve surgery done on August 19 at KC Bariatrics. Is there anyone else in the KC area that would like a buddy?

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not in KC but i love new buddies

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I'll be your buddy. I'm getting sleeve on the 24th at kc bariatrics.

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Thank you to both of you! I appreciate the support. I'm getting the sleeve at KC bariatrics on the 19th!

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Tomorrow is the big day!! I hope all goes well! Who is doing your surgery? How's the liquid diet been? Thank goodness I just have to do a week. liquids only -not so easy for sure!

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I'm excited! Dr. Hoehn is doing the sleeve. I did well on the 2 week liquid. I'm very, very lucky. I think I messaged you. Have you started yet?

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Dr. Hoehn is also doing mine! I've heard great things about him. I truely believe we are in very good hands.

I'm day 2 of 7 liquid and struggling a bit with the liquid only. I lost about 55 lbs since end of January doing mostly low carb. I've been stuck on scale for last month or so. Lately, I've been exercising more but also have had a few higher carb meals. I haven't given up caffeine until now. -Combined I think that's why I'm struggling(my own fault).

I am so very excited and ready to get on with this and start dropping! Do you know if messaging works on Android? I rarely get on home computer or laptop.

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Hi KChelper and haleyk. I too am having the sleeve Dec 8th with Dr. Hoehn. Just curious how everything is going with you both and if you have any advice specifically for dealing with KC bariatrics? Would you do it all over again at the same place knowing what you know now? Have you lost a lot of weight?

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I think a lot of Dr. Hoehn. I've struggled with some of the staff. They seem to he very overwhelmed with all the patients. I was hoping for a more personal relationship although I feel they may have gotten too big for that. Dr. Hoehn did a wonderful job. The surgery & recovery went great. The nurses were wonderful. If you are struggling with the staff, please let the office staff know. I did & it made a difference. I've lost well. I had surgery mid-August & have lost 60lbs. I have a lot to lose. Please let me know anything you may need. I'd be happy to help.

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Blessing fellow sleevers: My name is Theresa. I am from Delaware, 64 yrs. young. After many many attempts at weight lost programs, and many more pounds later my doctor decided that the sleeve was the best suit from me. I am 8.5 weeks out. Looking for a buddy who would be willing to help me out during this new adventure. My surgery was Aug. 21, 15. I did loose 27lbs, but now I am stalled. Everyone tells me this is norma (is it) it has been the entire month of Oct. What am I doing wrong..Need a buddy who is willing to hang in there with. Thanks in advance for any information, encourage etc..Must needed. Stalled in Magnolia, DE..

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@@KChelper, I messaged you. The "KC" was a giveaway. Dr. Hoehn will also be my surgeon in January. I hope I locate some buddies from the same practice when my time comes. It would be fun to compare notes! Hope your surgery (everyone's surgery, for that matter) went great and life is treating you all well.

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Sorry just saw this. Dr. Hoehn is awesome! I had great experience with all the staff. I was a little dehydrated day of surgery an got stuck 7 times to get iv started which was a little ick. I started at 299.8 Jan 30. I was 244 dos Aug 24 i'm now 209.2 I'm so happy! Can't wait to be in onderland! My sister was sleeved after me she had surgery with dr. Aragon she got a leak had to go back to surgery which Dr. Hoehn and Hamilton assisted with to convert to rny type thing. She was in hospital for nearly a month and had to do out patient dialysis once she left hospital. She came close to death-it was very scary. I don't think the surgery center handled her complications well. It is very very rare that they happen -if the do you really should be in a surgical icu afterwards. Don't want to scare you or anything-I'm so glad I made this decision and also would do all over again at KC bariatric. Wish you the best. Let me know if you have any questions.

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Theresa64 I've definately had stalls. I'm doing low carb since we kinda end up doing that anyway. I've had luck with having a cheat day in a stall then going back strict watching carbs. I am walking lots-my fit bit helps motivate me. It'll gome off and it will be for good! Yay!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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