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okay i am 22 yrs of age and today i cheated big time. I had 2 double cheeseburgers and 10 pc nugget i am so upset with myself I dont know what to do. I am on a 10 day full liquid diet this is the second time i cheated. The first time it was two thin crust chicken pizza slices. I have lost weight but my surgery is in 4 days and i wonder How this will effect my liver, will it shrink or nah? I just feel like a failure at this point any advice would help

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my highest weight was 370 i am 334 as of today i loss 16 pounds since ive started the pre op diet my doctor just want full liquids

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At least you were able to do it all the way through almost, I feel terrible because I've cheated here and there and really wished I didn't I've still lost weight and since seeing my doctor I've lost about 38 pounds and apparently I did my liquid diet wrong too! I incorporated fruits into it so that my Protein meals didn't taste so bland and was told that I wasn't allowed to do that. I know one time I did a liquid diet for 10 days straight and I guess just the thought that I'm being told to do this as opposed to just doing it myself is a little hard I guess. My surgery is on August 4th so I'm right around the corner too!

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I cheated twice pre-op as well. I Lost 15pds & all went well with my surgery. My doc told me my liver didn't shrink as much as he would have liked, but nonetheless, he was able to perform the surgery.

I had horrible pain the first couple of days, I can't help but think that maybe had I followed orders, the pain would have been less intense? Won't know for sure.

You can't change the past but try to make sure you get a good start to your future, from today forward behave & good luck!

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i thnk the preop was the hardest part for me, i still cooked for my husband but did lots of crying!

i would assume as long as you are following the last 24-48 you should be fine, however a friend in my surgery class cheated quite a bit and her surgery lasted about 2 hours, while mine was less than an hour...so i think it does make a bit of a difference when they get in there.

remember as hard as it is right now, it does get easier and right now is the time to start making your brain shut up about food! i dont physically feel hungry but i sure do get head hunger, it starts to become more of a mental thing.

good luck on your surgery (all of you!) this is a changing thing in your life! take advantage of every second! and forget the hiccups...they arent going to last long.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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