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It's been 6 months since my original gastric bypass, which I then had reversed to a sleeve about three months ago.

I still cannot eat without vomiting and pain. Sometimes, some days, I can do yogurt or a pretzel. I sometimes can handle cheese and Soups. But there are many days I can't.

I haven't had more than 300 calories a day in six months.

With the sleeve everything hurts and feels like it gets stuck and I have to make myself throw up to feel better.

Anyone else experiencing an inability to advance their diet at three months?

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What does your doctor say?

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Sorry that this is happening. does your doctor know? sounds like you are on the road to malnutrition if not already there. one can be malnourished even if overweight. what is your wt/bmi? if critical - maybe time for feeding tube - J tube/Mickey or something other than PICC line. start first with your MD. I struggled with same symptoms and my GI doc did not believe me until he popped in right before a nasojejunum tube was to be placed. he was shocked when he saw me. after i was strong enough for a J tube (about 31 days later), off to the OR. had a j tube for about 14 months maybe. (you can find my thread if interested).

In any case, advocate for yourself or present to the ER if your doctor won't see you. If you have been on your stated diet - it will reflect in your appearnace, lab work, etc. Please follow up with your providers............................and let us know your progress.

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Go to the doctor fast

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My BMI and blood work still comes back okay, for now. I'm losing about 2-5 pounds per week. I can only lose another 15 pounds max before I am going to look skeletal.

I do take some Vitamins which is helping but most of them I can't take because they make me sick with no food in my stomach. It is so difficult for me to eat!!!

I'm heading to an appointment with a new bariatric surgeon today because the one that did my surgeries is a dick.

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I had a stricture that prevented me from getting more than 500 calories a day for about 6 months. I drank Premiere Protein (bluuuurrrrrrrp!) just to get in my Protein twice per day. I stayed on purees and mushies for almost three months.

I still have days where it's hard to eat "real" food and I am over two years out. If it doesn't have sauce/gravy/mayo/dressing on it, it's not going down. I have to eat small bites, chew thoroughly and eat slowly. I have a very tight restriction still (fortunately!) but I make good choices.

Choose high calorie, high protein, high fat stuff like good cheeses (cream cheese on a spoon!!), almond butters, crab salad, diced shrimp and avocado, etc. If you can fit it on a baby spoon, eat it. That's what I do on my "non-feeding" days.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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