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Hey guys, I tried to get some response from an earlier thread, but no luck, so I will try a new thread. I was wondering without being to graphic, how the lap band will change some of the activities that my hubby and I enjoy, now that I have a smaller stomach, am I limited to what can go in the stomach, and will it affect me, if at all. If anyone can help it would be much appreciated. Mahalo

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As you are healing, you will be more limited in positions simply because some will be uncomfortable for you. My BF and I still have trouble with the missionary position because his weight puts too much pressure on my port site, which is painful for me. Other aspects of intimacy will not be affected, though.

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From reading the original posters thread before this one, I think the OP is talking about swallowing sperm. The amount of sperm that is released in an ejaculation is not going to affect the stomach pouch.

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Hi,

Well.. I haven't actually attempted that as of yet but I'm almost certain it won't hurt you. I say go ahead and try it because even if someone on here says it's not okay or it is okay, you won't know what will hurt YOU until YOU try it.

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THIS IS THE BEST POST EVER!!!!!! Not laughing at you, Kaohinani; I'm sure most of us can relate, just didn't have the guts to ask the question!! Get it girl!! vbmenu_register("postmenu_495268", true);

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You guys are awesome!!!!! I guess Shaydee is right, I won't know until I try it. But if by chance someone out there has tried it, please let me know, I would rather not be throwing up or having a PB (ewww) with that one.

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Just an extra "shot" of Protein. Ewww! Sorry I went there....

WHEWWWWWWWWW HAHA. You are hilarious. That is what I was thinking but was to 'modest' to type it. LOL

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I came home after my first day back too work, and was stressed out...and than I read this post....

Thanks everyone for cheering me up!!!!

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Lol...interesting question....I had my procedure done on May 7th, and I wanna say me and my bf started having sex like 3 weeks laterr....I knew I could have been having sex earlier but my bf was scared of hurting me, and me not being properly healed...Either way...it hasnt affected what we do in bed. We still do all the same things pre-surgery as well as post-surgery.

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I am not a swallower so I am not sure about the pb of sperm. Well, now, that would be quite embarassing if you were pbing sperm with the in laws around. LOL...just kidding. I really don't know, but can't imagine it would be any different than having a sip of something kinda thick and mucuosy (sp?)...lol..now that sounds gross....I am gonna shut up now...LOL...Deanna

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